| Meeting up for coffee or drinks is pretty much what | | | | more productive. |
| the large majority of people recommend when it | | | | This also leads me to another very important point. |
| comes to a first meeting with a woman that you | | | | Do you really want to invest that much time and |
| met online; basically because coffee or drinks is safe | | | | energy exclusively on a woman that might show up |
| and allows you to get somewhat comfortable with | | | | whom you may or may not like as vice versa? |
| that person or at the very least see if the two of | | | | In other words, you are putting yourself in a lose/win |
| you click or not. | | | | lose situation. |
| However, besides the fact that it is safe and easy it | | | | You lose if she doesn't show up and you lose if she |
| really doesn't have much else going for it and when a | | | | does and either you don't like her or she doesn't like |
| woman is thinking about actually meeting up with you | | | | you. |
| she knows this as well. | | | | The only time you win is when both of you like each |
| Whether you like it or not there is a certain amount | | | | other and there is absolutely no guarantee that will |
| of pressure when two people meet up for drinks for | | | | happen. |
| the very first face to face meeting. | | | | In the end, when it comes to meeting women that |
| Mainly because if you don't click or connect with each | | | | you met online for the very first time, coffee or |
| other you really don't have anything else to fall back | | | | drinks will work. |
| on; and this isn't necessarily a good or bad thing. | | | | Yet, given the chances of success you might want |
| Not to mention the fact that if she fail to show up | | | | to consider some different options and only use this |
| you essentially just wasted a portion of your day | | | | particular one as a last resort. |
| that could've been spent doing something else much | | | | |