| Are you looking where to meet women other than a | | | | change in 1 year. In 5 years. In 10 years. Ask her |
| bar? Bars and clubs are some of the TOUGHEST | | | | what she likes best about herself. LISTEN to her |
| venues to gain long term relationships in (as you | | | | response and ask a follow up question, time allowing. |
| know since you are reading this article). | | | | You will stand out, and if you pass her physical |
| Here are some suggestions, in no particular order that | | | | attraction test, you will be getting her contact |
| have been discussed on the dating women radio | | | | information! |
| show that I co-host. | | | | Dance Lessons |
| The Internet | | | | Women love to dance. Guys generally do not. If you |
| Online dating sites do not have the stigma they once | | | | take a dance class, the ratio will be with you. There |
| did. It used to be that people thought they were a | | | | will be 10 women to 1 guy in the class (or better). |
| slimy version of the personals you would find in your | | | | Even if you do not meet a girl in the class, the skills |
| local classifieds but internet dating has grown up. You | | | | you learn will help you with other women you meet |
| can roll through a lot of profiles of single, eligible ladies | | | | out (because you can dance with them) and speaking |
| in a short amount of time. They can do the same | | | | as a guy that has taken dance classes, it improves |
| with you. It is a super efficient way for busy people | | | | your physical movements and your confidence. Never |
| to find each other. Best of all? Generally, if a lady | | | | a bad thing! |
| bothers to fill out a profile and put her pictures online, | | | | Helpful tip: This venue is different in that unlike the |
| she is looking for a relationship. | | | | internet and speed dating, the women here are not |
| Helpful tip: Get 2 PROFESSIONAL photos. One in your | | | | necessarily there to meet a guy. They are generally |
| best suit. The other more casual. You should NOT | | | | there to, you guessed it, DANCE! As hard as it may |
| write a book in your introduction. Just tell potential | | | | be, you have to lay back and let them come to you. |
| ladies that you are looking for a self-reliant woman to | | | | If you wander around your first 2 classes like a |
| share some laughs with as you get to know her over | | | | canine in heat then you will likely NOT get anywhere |
| coffee. The most important thing is that you pass | | | | with them. It is an even better play to just befriend |
| the physical attraction test and are able to get her | | | | the women that are in your class and hopefully meet |
| out to meet you for coffee. You will never sell her | | | | them out to dance and then HOPEFULLY they will |
| on a relationship over cyberspace so just keep it light | | | | set you up with their single friends. |
| and funny and hope you get to meet her in person. | | | | On our dating women radio show we had a guy call |
| Speed Dating | | | | in and tell us about this site. At first it sounded like |
| Usually about 20 men and 20 women get together in | | | | one of those racy sites we would NEVER |
| a speed dating event (just search for "speed dating" | | | | recommend (our show is G-rated) but it turns out |
| and your city name to see if there are events in | | | | this is a GREAT VENUE to find like minded people to |
| your area). The ladies stay in their seats and the men | | | | hang out with. They take people with similar interests |
| move around the room from woman to woman in a | | | | and encourage them to form an online group and |
| timed fashion, anywhere from 3 to 8 minutes. You | | | | meet. What a way to expand your social circle! They |
| meet each other, write down some pertinent data | | | | have groups for almost everything and you will meet |
| about each other and if you are interested in meeting | | | | people you would have never met before. |
| again you will each check a box on a form and the | | | | Helpful tip: Just like my advice with the dance lessons, |
| organizers of the event will give you her contact | | | | the women you meet here are there for the activity |
| information and vice versa. It is up to you after that! | | | | first. Respect that. You want to lay back and let |
| Again, the women that show up here are generally | | | | things come to you. If you can meet a lady there, |
| interested in a relationship. You do not have to | | | | cool. If she introduces you to her super attractive |
| wonder if she will talk to you or not as the women | | | | friend, then you will take that too. |
| there show up to talk to you and find a guy! | | | | I am sure you can come up with where to meet |
| Helpful tip: Most every other guy is going to spill his | | | | women other than a bar, even beyond what I |
| guts about himself OR ask stupid and basic questions. | | | | suggested above. |
| BE DIFFERENT. Take control of the conversation. | | | | Remember guys, it takes imagination and an open |
| Give her a big smile, shake her hand, look in her eyes. | | | | mind! |
| Ask her if she won the lottery, how would her life | | | | |