| of people playing the dating game will ask me this | | | | the key to picking up women, not the location you |
| question over and over again. "Where Do I Meet | | | | are in. You can see what responses you get from |
| Women?" Many people's usual response is single's | | | | your pick up maneuvers in these places. |
| bars and clubs. The people who usually ask me this | | | | As far as other places, as I said, anywhere you find |
| already know of those places and those places aren't | | | | a woman that attracts you is a great opportunity to |
| really their scene. So, when a man is faced with this | | | | say something new. A few choice places are places |
| dilemma, I usually give him this piece of advice. | | | | that YOU have an interest in. Enjoy sports? How |
| Just about anywhere! That's right, you don't have to | | | | about your local Gym or YMCA? These places have |
| limit yourself to singles bars and nightclubs to get | | | | women that share the same interest. Restaurants, |
| your dose of dating. Location is not really that | | | | parks, and other public places. I have even heard of |
| important. Sure, those singles bars and clubs will have | | | | men that pick up women at the grocery store! |
| more available women, but those places usually have | | | | Now, once you have found a good place to find and |
| much more fierce competition if your pick up skills | | | | approach women, hang out there on a semi-frequent |
| are not up to par. It is these skills you must practice | | | | basis. Do not be a lurker! These men are the ones |
| and master before you break out of the idea that | | | | who give off the creepy vibe. Trust me, women can |
| bars and clubs are the only place to meet women. It | | | | see these men a mile away. They are the men at |
| is these skills that are your real assets. | | | | the grocery store who have been there for two |
| How do I master these skills? Just like anything else. | | | | hours and don’t have a single item in their |
| You have to practice at them before you master | | | | basket. It is best to be natural. Actually enjoy |
| them. Sometimes that takes a lot of trial and error. | | | | yourself at these places and women will be more |
| Be prepared for this. Approach women and start a | | | | receptive to what you have to say instead of |
| conversation. Don’t be afraid to get rejected. | | | | putting up their defensive gates. |
| It is these rejections that will improve your approach | | | | The key is not where you approach women, it is |
| and finally break you out of the location restrictions | | | | how you approach women. Every time you approach |
| that are holding you back. | | | | a woman, study the responses you get. Then, after |
| Bars and clubs are good places to practice. When you | | | | awhile, adjust your responses from past results. |
| start out, go to those places as a way of practicing | | | | Eventually you will see that women can be met |
| or honing your pick up skills. Be sure to try new | | | | anywhere. They real golden ticket is attracting them |
| things. Never stop learning. It is these skills that are | | | | once you find them. |