| What is a soul mate? People use this term so loosely | | | | soul mate. |
| that it has become synonymous to buddy or BFF | | | | One thing's for sure. Meeting your soul partner is not |
| (best friends forever). As Thomas Moore describes | | | | about instant attraction or eyes meeting across a |
| it, a partner as a person you are deeply connected | | | | crowded room, and then bang! You know it's your |
| to by divine grace. This means someone God has | | | | soul mate. Those are stuff movies are made of. |
| blessed upon a person, and this is why people search | | | | There is a huge chance your soul mate is someone |
| the world over for their soul mate. | | | | you've already met but never thought of in terms of |
| It is unfortunate that many people wrongly believe | | | | a personal relationship. It could also be a childhood |
| that the soul mate is someone who looks like you; or | | | | friend, or a neighbor. |
| someone who says exactly what you want to say | | | | To find the one person who you feel intangibly |
| before you say it. This is really more of a case of | | | | connected to, you need to open your eyes. You |
| knowing the person intimately, but not necessarily a | | | | need to talk to people and be approachable. You also |
| partner. | | | | need to be willing to accept the person, even if it |
| For Black Christian singles to meet their soul partners, | | | | isn't the one in your daydreams. |
| it would be better if it is done in a church or church | | | | So, get involved in your church and get to know the |
| event. But then, this would be too predictable and | | | | people you meet up with everyday. At the very |
| very unlike God, who seems to have a lovely sense | | | | least, you build strong relationships and lasting bonds, |
| of humor. Maybe this is why there are a lot of | | | | and at the very best, you get to finally fall in love |
| Christians turning to the internet in search for their | | | | with the right person. |