| When a man and a woman meet one of three | | | | control the frame and if a man allows her to take |
| people will end up controlling the frame of the | | | | control in general she is going to go in a direction that |
| interaction. | | | | does not lead anywhere close to attraction. |
| 1. The Man | | | | Of course there are some women that might choose |
| 2. The Woman | | | | to build attraction with you, but you are going to lose |
| 3. The Man's imagination of what the woman thinks | | | | a lot more women than you will attract. |
| Of course you should realize that only the first option | | | | The Man's Imagination Controls |
| gives you a realistic chance of succeeding with | | | | If giving the woman control is a bad thing then your |
| women. | | | | imagination of what she thinks is the worst idea ever. |
| However, I will go over what normally happens when | | | | Men who rely on their imagination of what she is |
| each of these three people control the frame. | | | | thinking to control the frame normally find that they |
| When The Man Controls | | | | don't meet women that often because they think |
| When the man controls the frame most women will | | | | they already know the outcome. |
| find it attractive as it is rare to find a man who has | | | | No matter what you think she is thinking you have |
| this type of control. | | | | already lost because it is those thoughts that are |
| In fact, the only women who wouldn't like him are | | | | controlling and not you. |
| the ones that wouldn't like him no matter what he | | | | In the end it is important to understand that when |
| did. | | | | you meet a woman you need to control the frame |
| When The Woman Controls | | | | of the conversation in order to enjoy success with |
| When a man meets a woman and then allows her to | | | | women. |
| take over control of the frame, he has put his | | | | If for whatever reason you allow her to take control |
| chances of success in her hands. | | | | of the frame realize that somewhere along the way |
| This is not good as most women want the man to | | | | you made a mistake and learn from it. |