When Meeting Women Never Ask If They Have a Boyfriend

Men being the logical creatures that we are tend torelationship status at all.
shoot ourselves in the foot when it comes toYet, knowing what I know about men there are
women.many of you who have a rule about not talking to
A perfect example of this is when a man asks aanother man's woman.
woman if she has a boyfriend or is in a relationship.For you your best option is going to be to ask her if
Now, for men this seem to be a both a necessaryshe if she is single.
and respectful questions.When you ask a woman if she is single in her mind
In our minds if she was our girl we would want othershe hears that you like her and want to get to know
men to show the same amount of respect and ifher in the way that she wants (even if you don't).
upon discovering her having a boyfriend would backIt's important that you understand when you ask a
off and chase after some other women.woman if she has a boyfriend or if she is single, she
However, what a woman hears when you ask herwill automatically assume that you like her.
that is, I like you a lot and I want you to be myIf she really is attracted to you then that is great,
girlfriend even though I know next to nothing abouteither way, but a girl really being attracted to you
you.upon the first meeting depending on your skill is slim.
In other words she will think you are a very needyIf, however, she is only mildly interested, she will only
guy.respond to, are you single questions and the do you
Based on her interpretation of your words she ishave a boyfriend guy is out the door.
almost left with no choice except to say that sheNow, the best option works because you never
has a boyfriend unless she has a thing for needyreveal that you like her since you don't ask either
guys, which is highly unlikely.question, but, you have your rules to follow and that
Knowing what I know about women your bestto some is a good thing.
option is going to be to simply not enquire about her