| The question of what to say when he finally calls isn't | | | | you're good and that you've been quite busy. Don't |
| a new one. Most women have wondered about this. | | | | delve into details about what's going on in your life or |
| The scenario is typically the same and it's always as | | | | what's happened since the two of you last talked. |
| frustrating. You haven't heard from your guy in days. | | | | The key is to really just have the same demeanor |
| You've left him countless voicemail messages and | | | | with him on the phone as you would any other friend. |
| you even sent him an email or two. Still there's no | | | | You need to talk to him solely as a friend, and not as |
| word from him. You get anxious, worried and then | | | | a boyfriend. He'll notice the slight shift in the way you |
| when you least expect it, the phone finally rings. So | | | | interact with him and that will speak volumes to him. |
| what exactly should you be saying to him in this | | | | The last thing you must do when he finally calls is to |
| case? | | | | be the first to end the conversation. Tell him that |
| The best answer to the question of what to say | | | | you were just heading out the door but it was so |
| when he finally calls is nothing. Obviously you need to | | | | great to catch up. If he says he'd like to get |
| greet him but it's not a great idea to verbally attack | | | | together, tell him you'll need to check your schedule |
| him over the fact that he hasn't called you in days. In | | | | but you'll let him know. Doing this will serve to show |
| most cases, he'll be expecting this and he has his | | | | him that you have other, more pressing things to |
| ammunition at the ready. If you ask him where he's | | | | tend to. He'll be confused as to why talking to him |
| been, he'll act nonchalant about it and say that you're | | | | isn't on the top of your priority list. |
| the one making a mountain out of a mole hill. | | | | This small shift in your attitude, combined with your |
| Suddenly you feel foolish and overbearing and he's in | | | | desire to end the call will show him that you're not |
| the right. You obviously don't want to put yourself | | | | the type to sit idly by patiently waiting for the phone |
| into that position at all. | | | | to ring. Doing this will almost guarantee that he won't |
| You need to actually act a bit detached, yet friendly. | | | | take as long to call you back ever again. Suddenly he'll |
| It sounds like a delicate balance and it is. It's not that | | | | be questioning whether you're as devoted to him as |
| hard to do though. Just be polite once you do | | | | he thought you were. Once those doubts start to |
| answer the phone. Keep the conversation very | | | | creep into his mind, he'll work extra hard to please |
| general. If he asks how you are, just reply that | | | | you. |