| Natural game centers around "state" and how to be | | | | world is just who he is, he tends to be in state a lot. |
| in it for long periods of time. When you are in "state," | | | | This is what it means to have "core confidence". It is |
| you are at your absolute best. You are confident, in | | | | next to impossible to reach the level of permanent |
| the moment and are a risk taker. Needless to say, | | | | state. Even the most devoted monk who totally |
| women will dig this version of you. What exactly | | | | isolates himself from all negative things has days |
| does it feel like to be in state? When you are in | | | | where he does not feel like a million dollars. That said, |
| state, you have a surge of positivity, steadiness and | | | | it is possible to be in state a lot. This requires |
| dominance. Everything clicks. Most importantly, you | | | | identity-level and potentially life-level change. |
| become the source of good emotions in your | | | | The ultimate root of situational as opposed to core |
| environment. | | | | confidence is the ego- that imaginary sense of self |
| On the other hand, when you are out of state you | | | | that you have. It is your ego that compares you to |
| feel incomplete. You feel anxiety and unnatural to the | | | | other people and judges what is good and bad. |
| point where everything feels off. If you ever feel | | | | Having an ego is not a bad thing. |
| robotic and are inside of your head, you are probably | | | | The problem comes when you take it too seriously. |
| out of state. If you are not thinking and just doing, | | | | When you are at a club with no friends, the reason |
| you are probably in state. | | | | you feel out of state is partly because of your |
| Ultimately, your identity tells you when you are and | | | | biology and partly because you are attached to your |
| are not allowed to be in state. It really is, to an | | | | ego, which is telling you that you should not be in |
| extent, a decision on your part whether or not you | | | | state. |
| are in state. | | | | Being in state more often requires you to drop your |
| In general, guys tend to give themselves permission | | | | attachment to the ego. Only then will you give |
| to go into state depending on the situation they are | | | | yourself permission to be in state and take chances. |
| in. This is called having "situational confidence". This | | | | Of course, dropping your ego means that you do not |
| tends to happen when a guy has his friends around, | | | | care if you screw up and at times look like a fool. |
| can do something that he knows other people will | | | | This is a process that takes potentially a whole |
| like, playing a guitar or is playing some kind of role | | | | lifetime. It can only be done by pushing your comfort |
| such as teacher-student. Another type of guy goes | | | | zone, exposing yourself to rejection and gaining social |
| into state because it is just a part of his identity. | | | | experience. That really is the only path to core |
| Being confident about himself and his place in the | | | | confidence and consistent state. |