| If the topic you've been discussing seems to be on | | | | therefore are avoiding the topic. It may also suggest |
| the verge of dying, one way of changing topics is to | | | | that you are not listening or that you are bored with |
| ask a ritual question. You might say, "You said you've | | | | the subject matter. |
| been in Florida for three years. Where were you | | | | Make Use of Names |
| before then?" Sometimes you might want to change | | | | Repeat her name several times as you speak. That |
| to another topic for only a brief moment. All you | | | | will help you remember it. Moreover, using her name |
| have to do is say: "Excuse me, but I'd like to change | | | | is one of the easiest and most meaningful |
| the subject for a moment," and then make your | | | | compliments you can give. You might find it easier to |
| comment or ask your question. | | | | remember names if you visualize them written out. |
| Try to complete your ideas quickly and then return | | | | Ask how to spell a difficult name. If you happen to |
| to your original topic of discussion. Don't do this too | | | | forget her name, it's perfectly OK to say, "Forgive |
| often. You may give the impression that your mind is | | | | me, but tell me your name again." Don't be |
| scattered, or that you cannot (or don't care to) | | | | embarrassed. And don't try to fake it - a "Christie |
| discuss a particular topic on a meaningful level, and | | | | resents being called "Crissie. |