| Shy? Well, do not worry. Women do actually like shy | | | | with a good dancing partner! You just need to put |
| men, too. They are not all the time on the lookout | | | | yourself in situations where it can happen. |
| for a hunk, driving the latest car or flashing the | | | | Making sure that you present a neat appearance is |
| trendiest gizmo's. Women also like quiet people, good | | | | very important as it boosts confidence, not only |
| listeners and guys who are not too self-conscious. | | | | yours, but also those of people watching you. This |
| So, have courage. | | | | does not mean that you have to spend a lot of |
| The first thing is to avoid trying to be what you are | | | | money on clothes. Just ensure that your outfit is well |
| not. Do not try to give an image of being very | | | | matched, clean, ironed and your hair is combed and |
| outgoing, aggressive if that is not who you really are. | | | | not scraggly. |
| Because if that is not you, you cannot pretend to be | | | | Last, but not the least, you have to bring up the |
| that way for very long and also it is false advertising. | | | | courage to make the first move, sometime or the |
| Just be yourself and your charm will surely be visible. | | | | other. Better sooner than later. Yes, shyness can be |
| Approaching women will be a great deal easier if you | | | | a terrible handicap and your head might be reeling |
| are confident about yourself. Sit back and think about | | | | with questions like "what if she says 'no'?" or "what if |
| what you are good at. Do you have a unique sense | | | | she makes fun of me?" Approach a women casually |
| of humor? Do you have a flair for writing? Do you | | | | and in a lighthearted not threatening way and you |
| love to dance and are you good at it? Think on the | | | | have less to lose and you will be less intimidating to |
| lines of what it is that you are good at and you can | | | | her. |
| share with a partner. | | | | You have to be ready for a 'no' every now and then |
| Once you have identified that, you need to be | | | | when you approach women for a date or a coffee. |
| prepared for opportunities to showcase your skills. | | | | It does not necessarily imply that they do not like |
| For example, you might be a great dancer but your | | | | you, so do not conclude that you are not attractive |
| shyness may cause you to stand in a corner during | | | | and let your shyness take over again. Everybody |
| parties. Have confidence. In such a situation, you | | | | experiences rejection and try not to take it |
| would not even need to approach women, they | | | | personally or let it stop you from making attempts at |
| would approach you. Everyone loves to to dance | | | | initial interaction in the future. |