| Let's face it - going to a bar to meet a woman can | | | | ENORMOUS difference. If you are nervous, and act |
| be very intimidating! | | | | scared, the women there will, in all likelihood, act the |
| There is so much to deal with - loud music, other | | | | same way. The chatter will stop and you'll probably |
| men, intoxication, and the worst... the hostile attitude | | | | be shut out. |
| that some women seem to emanate! It's easy to | | | | If you act like you're having a good time, you think |
| tuck tail and run, but there is something you have to | | | | they look like some fun people to talk to, and you |
| understand: these women get approached so often | | | | start on that note, they'll be FAR more likely to be |
| in bars that they think they've heard it all. So | | | | friendly and open. Now, I know a lot of guys who |
| generally they are ready to reject men out of hand | | | | are GREAT at meeting women in bars. Some of |
| before they have a chance. | | | | them use rather interesting and complex techniques |
| Don't take it personally. This is just a defense | | | | that range from "pick up lines" all the way to magic |
| mechanism. But that doesn't take away from the | | | | and psychic readings. |
| fact that this rejection is the major cause of the fear | | | | But you don't need to do anything that complicated. |
| most men experience when it comes to meeting | | | | Instead, give this tactic a try... |
| women in bars. | | | | Pick up your drink, walk over to the table, think of |
| You're probably afraid to go start a conversation in a | | | | the funniest moment of your life so you have a smile |
| bar because you don't want to be rejected by | | | | on your face and say, "What, are you girls shy or |
| women. And hey, who could blame you? But you | | | | something?" |
| can't let this fear rule your life. Despite the | | | | When they say, "NO, why?" |
| intimidating atmosphere, it IS possible for you to | | | | Answer, "Because I've been sitting at the next table |
| meet many great women in a bar or nightclub. Once | | | | for at least a half hour and you haven't come over |
| you can face this fear and start to deal with it, only | | | | to say hi to me!" |
| then will you start making progress. | | | | I have about 3 different friends who all use variations |
| In my experience, knowing how to meet GROUPS of | | | | of this opening, and it always works great (if you're |
| women can really help to increase your success in | | | | having fun when you say it). Just remember, attitude |
| bars. After all, women hardly EVER go to a bar by | | | | is everything. Make sure you are having FUN when |
| themselves! Bars are social atmospheres, so they | | | | you are meeting girls. They'll have fun too. And if you |
| usually go with friends. If you have the ability to | | | | don't, you'll probably be back in the grip of fear. |
| approach the entire group, it is much less likely that | | | | This fear is what needs to be addressed. If you can |
| you'll get rejected. | | | | get by that, and subsequently the worry of what a |
| Beginning a conversation with a girl in a group of | | | | girl thinks of you, you'll be setting yourself up for a |
| women is difficult enough; continuing it depends very | | | | lot more success. |
| much on the VIBE you put out there. This makes an | | | | |