| The way you ask for a date with single women can | | | | It's best to make it easy for the woman you're |
| make a big difference in whether she accepts or | | | | asking out to accept your invitation for a date. Make |
| declines. Also, it's very important that you feel | | | | it easy for them to say, "yes." Also, think positive |
| confident in advance that she is going to accept your | | | | when asking her out. Believe that she is going to |
| invitation to get together for a date. | | | | accept and there's no way that she will say, "no." |
| Whatever you do, don't expect a "no" answer in | | | | In my opinion, here's the best way to ask a woman |
| advance of asking her out. This can backfire on you | | | | for a date: |
| by showing the woman your lack of confidence | | | | |
| around women. If you expect rejection, it can create | | | | 1. "My friends have been raving about a new Italian |
| a self-fulfilling prophecy. | | | | restaurant that serves really great food. I've never |
| Let me give you some examples of the wrong way | | | | been there. Would you like to try it out with me?" |
| of asking single women for a date. These negatively | | | | (This really doesn't have to be the truth, just make it |
| phrased questions can set you up for failure in trying | | | | up to get a date). |
| to get a date: | | | | 2. There's a good symphony/play coming to town in |
| | | | a couple of weeks. This sounds like a really fun thing |
| 1. I know you're probably busy Friday night, but if | | | | to attend. Would you like to join me? |
| you're not busy would you like to go out with me? | | | | 3. Some of my friends are going to the beach this |
| 2. I don't suppose you're free to have lunch with me | | | | weekend to hang out and party. They have asked |
| on Friday are you? | | | | me to come along. I know it would be a lot of fun. |
| 3. You wouldn't want to meet me for a drink | | | | Would you like to come along with me? |
| Thursday after work, would you? | | | | I'm sure you get the idea now. These are |
| Can you see how negative these questions are? | | | | non-pressured and direct questions for asking for a |
| They are already programmed for a "no" answer. | | | | date. They sound so much better than the negative |
| Plus, she might think that you have already asked | | | | examples I gave you to not use for asking for a |
| someone else out and you got shot down, so now | | | | date. Don't you agree? |
| you are trying your luck with her. Her thinking this, | | | | I hope this advice helps you to get more dates and |
| even though it might not be true, puts you in a bad | | | | happy hunting! |
| position. | | | | |