| Have you ever been turned down by a woman | | | | Nervousness, depending on her past experiences, |
| when you've approached her? Or even worse, have | | | | may bring up initial concerns such as creepiness, |
| you been laughed at? That sort of makes it difficult | | | | strangeness, low self esteem, or any other number |
| for the next time a man wants to approach a | | | | of things. It can be a huge turn off. So, if you are |
| woman. But, we women aren't as scary as we may | | | | nervous, it's important to push through that and be |
| seem. Let me fill you in on a few simple secrets to | | | | nervous inside, just don't appear nervous on the |
| approaching women so that you aren't turned down | | | | outside. The best way to do that is to not care |
| the next time. | | | | about the outcome. Your motivation when you |
| Here are three easy and simple ways you can | | | | approach a woman is to get her to engage you. |
| approach a woman. | | | | However, it is best to not care if you get rejected. |
| First off, let's talk about where to meet women at. | | | | Never take yourself too seriously. A lighthearted |
| Sure, you can just go to a bar, but, if you aren't | | | | approach comes across as confident, which is an |
| comfortable in a bar, then where do you go? There | | | | attractive element. This creates the desire for more. |
| are always internet dating sites in this new era, but, I | | | | So, be confident, and be as smooth as you can by |
| find face to face meetings to be much more | | | | just being yourself. You can always start with just |
| powerful. I've done the internet dating thing, and it's | | | | saying hello to attractive women. Starting with a hello |
| okay, but, face to face is much better. So, find a | | | | gives you great practice, and if you're only objective |
| hobby! If you love painting, go take a painting class. | | | | was to say hello, then, you achieved it! It's a great |
| You can always check your community college for all | | | | place to start. |
| sorts of classes if you aren't sure what you are | | | | Thirdly, what is the right way to ask a girl out on a |
| interested in. Learn a language, take piano, do some | | | | date? The best way is to be confident and casual. If |
| pottery, find a hiking group, sky diving... it can literally | | | | you appear needy, she is going to run for the hills. |
| be ANYTHING you enjoy doing. If you enjoy it, | | | | Don't pressure her, just simply ask her if she would |
| chances are, you will meet women there that have | | | | like to go to dinner, a movie, what ever it is you are |
| the same passion, and you'll instantly have subject | | | | wanting to do with her. A great way to ask her out |
| matter you can talk about. | | | | is to pick something you want to do, and then ask |
| Secondly, be confident. If you are nervous, that's | | | | her if she'd like to join you. That can take away alot |
| okay, but, it's not attractive to women. Nervousness | | | | of the pressure of a first date, and remove some of |
| can come off looking like a number of things. | | | | your nervousness. |