Single Christian Women and the Church

In today's lifestyle there are several reasons whyheaded by an older married couple who stand
women are either single by choice, single again ortogether in responsibility of the singles.
widowed at a young age. Many of these women areChristian women must often stand alone in the
struggling to live a Christian life and they have thechurch, maintaining a reputation of a godly life. "Dating
forces of the world beating them down daily.around", friendships with married men and not having
Economics make up a large portion of problems fora quiet spirit can be deadly to the reputation of a
single parents. Loneliness is faced daily. Worksingle Christian woman.
obligations enter into the lives of the parent and theOur culture often puts the single Christian woman in
children and there never seems to be enough hoursthe fire. However, single or married, we all have the
in the day. Then there is the ever problem of living asame heavenly Father, the same offer of salvation
life where God calls for purity in our life in all areas.and the same love from Jesus.
The single life gives us a unique time and opportunityThe dedication of ourselves to children and family, if
to work on our own personal self, develop a varietythey are in a woman's life is a wonderful basic. The
of relationships and a variety of ways that we candedication of a Christian woman to a ministry for God
serve in the church. However, single womenwill fulfill and sustain as He is molding the woman's life
particularly, face a "stigma" in the church. Sincefor the future.
"people will be people"; this will likely never change.Any friendship or dating relationship must be viewed
Single women must constantly take care of theiras a possible potential mate and special care must be
behavior, their dress, their associations and everytaken to slowly build and nurture it. Both parties must
word that is spoken from their mouth if they are tofirst have their eyes on the Lord and die to self as
live a separated life and maintain respectability. God'sfar as temptations or the desire to move ahead too
word tells us that a good reputation is worth morequickly.
than fine jewels. It is priceless yet it is constantThere are many challenges and victories to the life of
maintenance and dedication to achieve.a single Christian woman. The opportunity for growth
Many churches offer their own single groups forcan reach mountain-top peak level or it can bring you
Sunday School and fellowship. The success of theseinto a valley so deep you are tempted to just follow
groups in accomplishing the job of ministering andthe world and give it up. A godly life is worth the
discipleship of the single woman is often the successstruggle and will be the example for your children as
or failure of a godly leader. Often it is difficult to findthey struggle in a broken family. It is a matter of
such a leader, due to the complications and time thatgiving and trusting in God to deliver you up to that
a singles ministry requires. Ideally a good group ismountain-top where the rewards will be worth it.