| There are a lot of mistakes men make with beautiful | | | | idea. Because the guys who do go after her are |
| women. They're probably the same mistakes they | | | | often over-confident jerks, they usually treat her |
| make with less beautiful women, too. | | | | badly. They put her down to build themselves up. So |
| But the biggest mistake that most men make | | | | she gets the message that she's treated badly |
| specifically with drop-dead gorgeous women, is to | | | | because she's either not really beautiful, worthy, or |
| think that they know how incredibly attractive they | | | | lacks lovability. |
| are. | | | | That's why a shy guy like you, who can get up the |
| Many of these 'super-model look-alikes' don't know | | | | nerve to approach this woman and tell her why he |
| they're beautiful. Not deep down. And the really | | | | finds her gorgeous, is going to be more successful |
| spectacular ones are often the girls who get very | | | | with her than your possibly better looking, more |
| few dates. | | | | confident friend. |
| Why? Because guys are terrified of them. They | | | | Because your friend is making that BIG mistake. And |
| consider these girls way out of their league and don't | | | | he's keeping his distance from her because he |
| want to set themselves up for failure. | | | | doesn't know what's really going on in her head. |
| A woman measures her attractiveness by her ability | | | | By the way, this doesn't apply to normally attractive |
| to attract men to her, not what she sees in the | | | | women. They usually have much better self-esteem |
| mirror. If men aren't coming to her, she often will | | | | than their impossibly gorgeous friends. |
| interpret that to mean she's ugly. Seriously. She will | | | | Because guys feel safer in approaching these |
| look in the mirror and see a neck that's too long (like | | | | women, more of them do. This pushes them higher |
| Audrey Hepburn did), eyes too close together, a | | | | up the 'attraction ranking'. These women are much |
| slightly crocked front tooth. And she'll blow it out of | | | | harder to get to, if you're just average. Or haven't |
| all proportion. And her jealous, so called girl-friends, will | | | | got that certain something that separates you from |
| often encourage her negative thinking. | | | | the pack. |
| She may also have another vulnerable spot. She may | | | | So next time you see an incredible looking woman on |
| think that her looks are the only thing she has going | | | | her own, don't assume she's waiting for Ashton |
| for her. And because she was born looking like this, | | | | Whoever to walk in the door. Follow some of my |
| and it didn't require some amazing vein of character | | | | other advice I've given in these articles, and approach |
| or talent to get that way, she sees it as insignificant. | | | | this woman. You might be surprised what kind of |
| The men who do approach her often reinforce this | | | | reaction you get. |