| You get into a relationship hoping that the person will | | | | Giving your power away |
| be the right one. You do things that you both feel | | | | You may find that you are most of the time giving |
| that are compatible with each other. You are | | | | your power away so that you can be together with |
| surprised and at the same time happy only to realize | | | | that person. You may feel the only way to get |
| after the courtship that lasted weeks or months is | | | | someone is to give up be who you are because if |
| not going to last. | | | | the person really knew you he would not love you. |
| Picking the wrong men | | | | Having expectations |
| Do you find yourself picking the wrong men to have | | | | If you have expectations about how the relationship |
| a long term relationship with knowing that he has | | | | should be than how it is then you leave yourself |
| difficulty in commitment yet you ignore the signs and | | | | open to feeling dissatisfied that you did not get your |
| still get involve only to be disappointed again. Do you | | | | needs met |
| find yourself staying in a relationship out of loyalty or | | | | Teaching people how to treat you |
| hoping that he will change because of you? | | | | The way you act with people and situations shows |
| Your self image | | | | others how to treat you so if you do not know your |
| You may have a low self image about yourself and | | | | limits others may not know where to draw the line |
| do not feel or think that you can have a good man in | | | | with you. |
| your life because they are all taken or rare. You may | | | | Do you deserve it |
| dress well outside and the inside of you feel less | | | | If you feel that you do not deserve to have the |
| than, a feeling that you do not deserve the best that | | | | best relationship because your inside is not showing |
| life has to offer. | | | | how you are outside then you need to change this |
| Difficulty in disengaging | | | | by creating new ways of behaving with you. This act |
| You may separate from the person physically and still | | | | starts with putting you first and respecting your |
| keep contact and going out with the person and that | | | | words and actions. |
| is because you have difficulty in disengaging with the | | | | Learning to listen |
| relationship. | | | | As many women start a new relationship have a |
| Feeling that you are to blame | | | | tendency to tell all right away and that may turn off |
| Do you find yourself blaming you for each time your | | | | a man or it does not give him time to discover who |
| relationship breaks up? | | | | you are as a person. It is wise to learn to listen when |
| Do you feel that you are the one who did not do | | | | you are in a relationship with a man give him a |
| the right thing to make it last? | | | | chance to express himself it may be the first time he |
| Being a victim | | | | does or that he is not accustom to doing. |
| You find yourself doing thing that is against your | | | | Conclusion: If you are having problems in your |
| values, what you believe because if you do not you | | | | relationship with your mate stop looking to fix |
| are afraid that the person will leave you. | | | | another and take care of you. |