| Most men have that initial thought process when | | | | woman across the room and speaking with her and |
| they see a woman they find attractive. First they | | | | what is the worst thing that can happen? If you |
| think to themselves "wow, she's hot". Next they | | | | practice scenarios and how you will deal with them in |
| think "I want to go over there and talk to her". | | | | your mind before they happen, you will be better |
| Finally, they talk themselves out of it by thinking they | | | | prepared for what may happen. |
| aren't good enough. | | | | You need to gather up the courage to take the first |
| The most important step in meeting women and | | | | step and go and speak to a woman. As you move |
| talking to them is overcoming approach anxiety. It all | | | | towards her, you are overcoming approach anxiety |
| starts with self confidence and self worth. Men need | | | | simply by tackling it head on. One of two things will |
| to tell themselves that they are worth talking to and | | | | happen once you arrive. The woman will speak to |
| that women really do want to meet them. | | | | you and you will hit it off, or she will make it known |
| Take a look at how you view yourself. Are you full | | | | that she is not interested and then you will move on. |
| of self doubt and negativity? Women can sense that | | | | Your life will not end because you actually decided to |
| and even if you did work up the courage to go over | | | | go over and talk to a woman and she was not |
| and talk to a woman, she would definitely sense how | | | | interested. The key is that you will never know |
| you were feeling. | | | | unless you try. |
| What can you do to help in overcoming approach | | | | Guys get rejected every day. Does this mean that |
| anxiety? The key component is confidence. The main | | | | every guy stops trying to meet women? No, they |
| ways to becoming more confident are accepting and | | | | just pick themselves up, dust themselves off and try |
| liking yourself for who you are, overcoming your | | | | another approach. A guy needs to remember that |
| fears (overcoming approach anxiety) and accepting | | | | women want to meet men too and working up the |
| your failures. Once you learn from your failures, you | | | | courage to approach a woman and talk to her just |
| improve and then you gain more confidence. | | | | might be the first step to a great relationship. |
| What is really stopping you from approaching that | | | | |