| Tip #1 - Work out a personal "opening line" and try it | | | | good on the menu?" Another one you could use is, |
| with endless variations. Some men need the support, | | | | "Would you like to go have a drink after dinner?" |
| the crutch, of a definite "line" in approaching and | | | | Beaches - "Would you like to play some Frisbee?" or |
| winning a woman. If you do, give a good deal of | | | | "I'm going to the store, can I bring you back |
| thought to this while you're working, reading, | | | | anything?" |
| traveling. Formulate a number of possibly effective | | | | Supermarkets - "Excuse me, which steak looks |
| opening lines in your mind and then sit down with a | | | | better to you?" or "How do you tell which one of |
| pencil and paper and write them down. Practice them | | | | these cantaloupes is ripe?" |
| out loud before a mirror until you get just the | | | | Laundromats - "Would you like to go have a cup of |
| phraseology which sounds most natural, smooth, | | | | coffee while we're waiting for our clothes?" or "Could |
| spontaneous and attractive. | | | | you tell me if I should wash these clothes in hot or |
| Practice delivering it in private aloud until you can use | | | | cold water?" |
| it as if it has just occurred to you in response to this | | | | Tip #2 - Pick out a successful Don Juan in your |
| particular woman. Go out and practice it, but with the | | | | crowd and study his style. Don't ask him questions. |
| freedom and confidence to vary it imaginatively to fit | | | | He probably doesn't know himself how he does it. |
| every new situation and woman. | | | | But try to go on "woman-hunting expeditions" with |
| Here's a few great opening lines to use when you | | | | him. Go to dances, parties, the beach, with him. Try |
| run across a single woman you would like to meet: | | | | to arrange some double dates together. Take |
| Bars and nightclubs - "Do you want to dance?" If she | | | | advantage of every opportunity to watch him in |
| says no, whatever you do, don't just walk away. | | | | action and study intensively, remember, rehearse in |
| Follow up with, "If you don't want to dance, do you | | | | your own mind, every line and gesture in his |
| mind if I join you for some conversation?" | | | | technique with single women. |
| Nightclubs with "live" music - "What do you think of | | | | If you want to learn more opening lines, check out |
| the band?" | | | | our book, "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines. |
| Restaurants - "This is my first time here. What's | | | | |