| Make your very first letter to your lady shine. This is | | | | 1 My best friend describes me as... |
| your chance to make a new friend who could | | | | 2 I'm happiest when I'm... |
| become an important part of your life. Remember | | | | 3 Here's what you'd find if you looked around my |
| that the very first impression about you will affect | | | | place... |
| on your future communication and if this impression is | | | | 4 A great day in my life would include... |
| capable of improvement this is not a good sign. | | | | 5 The last great book I read was... |
| Follow our instructions and warning tips, based on | | | | 6 The last great movie I saw in a cinema was... |
| many years of online dating experience and be sure | | | | 7 My favorite season is... |
| that success will find you very soon. | | | | 8 The color I wear most is... |
| Instructions | | | | 9 If you asked me what I'm wearing, I'd say... |
| • STEP 1: Be friendly and polite. It's so important | | | | 10 My favorite on-screen love scene is... |
| to show your respect to your lady by using friendly | | | | 11 The music that moves me most is... |
| and polite words in your letter. Avoid nicknames and | | | | 12 Today in my car I was listening to... |
| phrases like: "Hey baby" or "My hot girl" in your very | | | | 13 Last Saturday night I... |
| first introductory letter, it's better to make a | | | | 14 The last vacation I went on was... |
| pleasant compliment for her instead. Don't worry if | | | | 15 The most adventurous thing I've ever done was... |
| you really like using these words you can do it a bit | | | | 16 I'm happiest when I'm with someone who... |
| later. Just wait till lady opened up for you. | | | | • STEP 5: Include information about your age, |
| • STEP 2: Keep your tone upbeat. Your letter | | | | education and career. In accordance with statistics |
| should reflect your great mood and optimism. Never | | | | these three things are the most important to learn |
| share your problems, difficulties and complaints in | | | | about for 80 % of ladies. |
| your first letter this will scare her away. Show her | | | | • STEP 6: Mention your favorite hobbies, pets, |
| how happy and cheerful you are. Understand that | | | | children or anything else that might unearth a shared |
| negativity is a major turnoff in your introduction | | | | interest with in your new friend. |
| letter. In the contrary, being positive is like a magnet. | | | | • STEP 7: Avoid talking about controversial topics. |
| Here's how one person actually began his letter: "To | | | | Not in a first letter. Discussions and debates can be |
| be quite honest, I have been putting this off as long | | | | really interesting thing to share in letters, but only |
| as possible. I have friends who use dating web sites | | | | when you feel that lady became closer to you and |
| and have had some terrible dates." This begs to ask, | | | | opened up. |
| "What are you doing here?" Now contrast that to | | | | • STEP 8: Take care not to overwhelm the |
| this introductory letter: "I've heard online dating is a | | | | reader with too much information. Revealing a little bit |
| great way to meet awesome people and that's why | | | | at a time will pique the reader's interest. Remember |
| I want to meet you." Which one of these letter | | | | that there must be a little secret not only in a lady |
| intros is more attractive? The one who wants to | | | | but in a man as well. You'll reach great results if you |
| date "losers" or the one that wants to date | | | | make your lady wait for the next chapter of our |
| "winners"? Psychologically everyone wants to be a | | | | story impatiently. |
| winner. Therefore in your first letter, avoid anything | | | | • STEP 9: Ask her questions so she can respond. |
| negative. Be positive. | | | | If you speak only about yourself in your letter this |
| • STEP 3: Share information about yourself that | | | | won't help you at all. Remember that it's so important |
| you think others will find interesting. Check her profile, | | | | to have a dialog instead of monologue. |
| find out about her hobbies and interests. Remember | | | | • STEP 10: Let your personality show by your |
| that it's so great if she finds out that you two have | | | | choice of words and the descriptions you use. |
| so much in common. | | | | Tips & Warnings |
| • STEP 4: Tell the person who you are and what | | | | • Remember not to share too much too soon. |
| you are about. Avoid speaking about your | | | | Wait until someone knows you before you air your |
| disadvantages in the very first letter. In the contrary | | | | family problems and secrets. |
| tell her how great and wonderful you are, but it's | | | | • Use careful judgment when deciding how much |
| important to know where to stop, otherwise your | | | | information to share with a stranger. Always be |
| story will turn into boasting and this won't have any | | | | cautious when it comes to revealing personal |
| positive results. Here are some phrases that will help | | | | information. |
| you to describe you in a best way: | | | | |