Older Women Younger Men: You Cannot Trick the Willing

According to the Wikipedia a cougar is "a capableodds are they do not apply to the majority of single
stalk-and-ambush predator, the cougar pursues aolder women.
wide variety of prey." According to our pop cultureWhat the term cougar also infers is that the young
definition a cougar is an attractive woman usuallymen they are pursuing are innocent victims blind to
about 40 or older who preys on young men.the ways of these modern day vamps.
Whether some women reject that label or wear itIn a word? No. It may come as a shock to some
like a badge of honor is irrelevant. The point inpeople but many young men go into these
essence is they are the hunter looking for therelationships with their eyes wide open. They see an
hunted. That's all well and good but only if it appliesolder woman who by any definition is attractive. Most
to older men dating younger women. The answer ismen but in this case young men know that a woman
it does not. Nobody calls that type of relationshipdoes not necessarily stop being attractive because
(which by the way is way more common) tigershe has reached the unspeakable age of forty. Due
dating.to new innovation and changes in lifestyle, many are
Instead the stigma falls squarely on older women. Notaking better care of themselves. Feel better look
surprise since far too many women today still facebetter and vice versa.
the exact same double standards that women haveBut modernism notwithstanding it's all takes a back
always had to deal with.seat when it comes to the attraction factor and both
Added to the mix is the fashionable pop analysis asparties deciding on what kind of relationship they
to why these women are pursuing this type ofdesire; which come to think of it has always been
relationship. From capturing some faded glory alathe case long before the term cougar came along. 
Norma Desmond in Sunset Boulevard to a change inA beautiful woman is just that regardless of age. The
social conditions; namely being in more positions ofoverwhelming majority of younger men know this.
power and now suddenly having a desire to flex thatIt's tough to be considered the hunted when you are
authority. Some of these reasons may be valid butdoing just about everything possible to get caught.