| Having a problem? You need a new skill. | | | | keep running into challenges. |
| If you have some area of your life that isn't working | | | | Remember, if you're having a challenge, you need a |
| for you, you probably need a new SKILL. | | | | skill. So remind yourself of this idea, come back to |
| I realized a few years ago that most people look at | | | | this book to get the information, and then practice |
| themselves and say things like, "There must be | | | | until you have the SKILL! |
| something WRONG WITH ME. I don't know why. I | | | | I began by creating self-image exercises based on |
| just can't do it." But, in fact, the problem wasn't | | | | NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) and Timeline |
| something 'wrong' with them; the problem was that | | | | Therapy, and doing them all the time. (Read Frogs |
| they needed to learn a new skill or a set of skills. | | | | Into Princes by Richard Bandler and John Grinder and |
| Meeting women comes down to SKILLS. If you're | | | | The Secret of Creating Your Future by Tad James |
| having a problem in a particular area, get new skills to | | | | for more info.) |
| deal with it. For instance, if you have learned to meet | | | | Here's one exercise that's helped me tremendously: |
| women and get phone numbers, you might start | | | | First, I close my eyes and imagine a picture of the |
| having them flake out on you and not show up for | | | | person that I want to become. I imagine how I'll be |
| planned meetings. Solution: A new skill. You need to | | | | dressed, the expression on my face, how I'm |
| learn the skill of getting women to meet you after | | | | standing... all the details. Then, I throw that picture up |
| making plans. | | | | into the air and have it start raining copies of it all |
| There are many parts to being successful with | | | | around me for as far as I can see... into my past and |
| women, and they all work together. You may already | | | | future... all around me. Exercises like these sometimes |
| know some of them, you might learn a few more | | | | sound silly, but they help direct your mind towards |
| from this book, but if you're missing a key (like how | | | | the person that you want to become. |
| and when to kiss a woman, for instance) you'll still | | | | |