| Many Single men fear rejection when interacting with | | | | Face it. You do not like everyone you know. Not |
| Single women. This is understandable and very | | | | everyone likes you. This is totally normal. Some |
| common. The problem is that if you do not risk | | | | women are going to like you; some are not. |
| rejection, you will never get closer to finding the one | | | | Sometimes it is not about you; sometimes it is. Learn |
| for you. What to do? Here are some ideas: Change | | | | from rejection. Yes, it does hurt, but I want you to |
| your attitude about meeting women. Decide that | | | | see it as feedback, nothing more. What do you need |
| rejection is information, nothing more. And finally, let | | | | to do differently based on being rejected? Evaluate |
| go of the outcome. | | | | your behavior and decide what your next step will |
| Change your attitude about meeting women: | | | | be. |
| If you have decided that you must meet a woman | | | | Let go of the outcome: |
| before your 40th birthday or else you will die a | | | | Again, meeting women is not a life or death situation. |
| bachelor, you are putting yourself at risk for failure. | | | | See it as an experiment. Your job is to meet a |
| Instead, take a light-hearted approach. Your mission is | | | | woman, have a brief conversation, ask her interesting |
| simply to meet as many women as possible. Your | | | | questions, and then move on. You can do this |
| meetings can be exchanging greetings and nothing | | | | anywhere: in the line at the DMV, in the produce |
| more. You want to get into the habit of being | | | | section of the grocery store, in the mall, you name it. |
| confident, looking women in the eye, and learning a | | | | With this method, you are not looking for a love |
| thing or two about them. That is all. | | | | connection. You are simply having a short, enjoyable |
| No more panicking because you have to meet a girl | | | | conversation with a stranger. Grant it, this |
| or else. Just work on feeling comfortable interacting | | | | conversation could turn into something more, but you |
| with every woman you meet. Take the pressure off | | | | are fine with it either way. Let go of the need to |
| yourself and enjoy the moment. | | | | make it something more (which can come across as |
| Rejection is only information: | | | | neediness) and see what happens. |