| Who else is looking to meet their soul mate? If you | | | | sisters met their husband and fiancee's respectively |
| are anything like the vast majority of women who | | | | on the most POPULAR dating site around...and I've |
| love our articles on women's health and relationships | | | | met my long term boyfriend the very same way) |
| advice, the simple truth is that you are FINALLY | | | | The key is confidence. |
| ready to meet your soul mate and settle down, | | | | - And being willing to be outgoing...and NOT sitting |
| right? It's amazing how many attractive, successful | | | | back and waiting for "him" to find you. |
| and otherwise successful women are NOT in serious, | | | | Remember, in 2010 the relationship rules are NOT |
| committed relationships, and as we all already | | | | about being passive. It's about being a strong, secure |
| know.....the more time that passes, the more anxious | | | | and confident woman WILLING to create and |
| we get! (even if we pretend on the outside to be | | | | manufacture her OWN destiny. (I had this |
| calm, cool and confident!) | | | | conversation with my own sister while watching her |
| The truth? | | | | wait and WASTE her weekends for naught...and in 2 |
| I've gotten into trouble for saying this before.....but | | | | short months after taking some "action" her entire |
| the simple truth is the ONLY thing that is holding you | | | | has now changed forever!) |
| back from meeting your soul mate is YOU! Listen: | | | | The Bottom Line? |
| With so many amazing avenues to meet men that | | | | I happen to be a big fan of dating online, simply |
| were NOT available even 10 years ago now widely | | | | because it gives SO much control back to women! |
| available to all, there is almost no excuse for NOT | | | | We don't have to "jump" into anything we aren't |
| having a bevy of dates just about any time you | | | | ready for, and we don't need to "kiss" a lot of frogs |
| want. (and easy pickings when it comes to meeting | | | | before realizing they're frogs! |
| men that you truly could see yourself spending a | | | | (because you have so MUCH variety to choose from |
| lifetime with) | | | | as a woman online, you can simply pick and choose |
| | | | who looks, sounds and FEELS best before you begin) |
| 1. You have Online social networks that have become | | | | And remember this... |
| a HOTBED of social opportunity. (even with men you | | | | Life truly IS short. I've learned that the hard |
| MIGHT have dated 10 years ago or more..:-) | | | | way....more than once..:-( Decide what you want in |
| 2. You have dating sites that even a decade ago | | | | 2010, and this year....make your resolution to go out |
| were considered "cheesy" now being the NORM | | | | and MAKE it happen. (you won't regret it... I promise! |
| when it comes to meeting men. (note: BOTH of my | | | | |