| There are three absolutely awesome things about | | | | Meeting Women in Class |
| College that make it exciting to meet and eventually | | | | THE RULE IS: Strike first, strike fast, strike hard. |
| date women: | | | | The first day of college is the most crucial part in |
| 1) A lot of cultural norms are already PREDEFINED by | | | | instantly defining your college social life. |
| tradition, and that makes what women do in college | | | | How early or late you arrive, what cologne you're |
| absolutely PREDICTABLE. When I was in college, one | | | | wearing (if you've got any on), what clothes do you |
| of the big things were the Basketball games | | | | have on, who you talk to first, where you position |
| especially the ones scheduled against our rival school. | | | | yourself in class, is very important. |
| There was also the nearby mall where you could | | | | Most men find it hard to talk game to a woman |
| drink, hang out and grab a Starbucks, and you've got | | | | during class because they don't come early enough |
| a nearby 18 and up club where kids partied. | | | | to plant the seeds. Look, some courses are tough as |
| THAT MEANS – conversational topics are way | | | | nails, so once the professor gets on it, you're 95% |
| easier than for grown ups, who after college are | | | | screwed. The only way to get her attention from |
| tossed in this crazy place called "the real world." As | | | | there is to participate in class discussions a lot and |
| long as you're in college, the predefined norms, like | | | | heck that doesn't even guarantee anything. So, don't |
| rival basketball games, places to eat, places to | | | | attempt to meet women during class. |
| discover, groups to join, events to attend, who the | | | | What you want to do is COME EARLY and STAY |
| hottest guy/girl is, are basically what everyone's | | | | LATE. It's a very simple trick in the book like many |
| talking about. | | | | of my strategies that's gotten me two girlfriends for |
| 2) Women in College are easier to talk to because of | | | | the two courses I majored in College. In large groups, |
| their hunger for a bigger social network, a diverse | | | | like in a class, whoever speaks up first and |
| amount of friends and acquaintances, and again, the | | | | "connects" groups together is the leader of the |
| predefined social norms. | | | | group, and we all know that the leader is the one |
| 3) Unlike high school, where there are a lot of | | | | women want. |
| "cliques" and "tribes" in a smaller space, College is | | | | Social/Academic Groups: the Do's and Don'ts |
| huge. College life ENCOURAGES joining as many | | | | DO NOT: |
| cliques and tribes as you can, and most have pretty | | | | Join College groups just because you want to meet |
| much equal social statuses. In high school, you usually | | | | women. |
| just had the cool kids and the non-cool kids. In | | | | Join too many groups to where your identity |
| College, there are lots of things that are cool – | | | | becomes confusing (like a skateboarding, ballroom |
| sports, music, the arts, even debating – so it's | | | | dancing, debating science lab intern) |
| not like your rise in status won't happen. You have to | | | | DO: |
| want it though. | | | | Join College groups that will make you stand out. |
| Take the Rolodex Out | | | | Join College groups that LOVE to party or host |
| It's time to start remembering faces and names, | | | | house parties. |
| because that's what makes a Social Butterfly a | | | | Join College groups that have multiple reaches and |
| master of his domain. You have to know the little | | | | allied groups. |
| details, like "when her next game is" or "what class | | | | Time to Be Hungry and Get your Chatter On |
| she hates the most" or "who she's rooting for in the | | | | Look, I had the best time when I was in College. I |
| semi-finals" or "what her favorite album is." | | | | had the cool girlfriend, an acquaintance here and |
| A Social Master in College who knows the value of | | | | there greeting me on every corner of the campus, |
| small talk, and its not just low quality small talk, its | | | | different cliques I could make a pit stop on to say |
| HIGH quality small talk – be the guy who | | | | what's up, and a lot of people pulling me several |
| remembers things like her pet name for god's sakes. | | | | different directions because they wanted me to go |
| No other guy would remember that, would they? | | | | to their events. The number one attribute I had to |
| Write this stuff down if you have to. Target key | | | | get this, was that I was HUNGRY and I INITIATED |
| women in social groups your engaged in and get the | | | | CONVERSATIONS. |
| details. | | | | So go out there and start dominating your campus. |