| Bars and nightclubs can be tough for a lot of guys | | | | casual rejection if you happen to strike an average |
| insofar as meeting women is concerned -- they are | | | | pose, to say the least. |
| not part of the "normal world" in the sense that | | | | With that in mind, here's 5 important things to know |
| many of the usual social techniques that we use to | | | | about successfully socializing within the fantasy |
| keep each other entertained crash and burn in this | | | | universe of bars and clubs: |
| environment. The women look extra hot and are | | | | 1) The bar / club scene demands that you participate |
| densely concentrated in one big room, but that's | | | | in the culture of what I call the "3-D's"... Dancing, |
| where the advantages over ordinary life pretty much | | | | Dressing, and the Displaying of attitude. You know |
| end for most of us. Everybody has their eyes | | | | what I'm talking about here and if you don't then you |
| focused on the top 20% of the hottest bodies | | | | need to visit a few of these places and observe the |
| moving around them like sleek, beautiful animals (and | | | | dynamics going on for yourself. Guys who play the |
| this goes for both the men AND the women). | | | | part expected of them by the foxy bar-queens that |
| Because of this understandable fantasy phenomenon, | | | | populate these places do the best. Whereas guys |
| the rest of us look lessened and low quality in the | | | | who stand around and watch, well... they stand |
| shadow of the visually hottest. | | | | around and watch. If these kinds of behaviors don't |
| For instance, if you happen to have the male disease | | | | come natural to you, then you'll have to learn how to |
| of shortness like I do, you will seem that much | | | | playact your way into this mindset because it's the |
| shorter and perhaps even comical standing next to | | | | only way that you'll have any sort of reasonable |
| the towering, muscular Sven or his rap star look-alike | | | | success-to-rejection ratio. |
| buddy at the nightclub. Girls who would otherwise | | | | Begin by frequenting some of the best places near |
| pick up a flirt in a grocery store isle will reject you in | | | | you. Watch and study the "players" who seem to |
| a heartbeat simply for failing to make that top 20% | | | | always have women buzzing around them. |
| cut. It's an environment that requires a thick skin for | | | | |