| If you're the type of guy who likes to work out and | | | | concerts I've been to, etc. It's a great way to get |
| take care of yourself, then chances are you spend a | | | | her attention away from her iPod and focused on |
| lot of time at the gym. In fact, it's not unusual for | | | | you! |
| guys to spend anywhere from an hour to two hours | | | | TIP #3: Offer Advice |
| a day working out! | | | | Often times, you'll see girls working out throughout |
| From personal experience, when I work out, I'll be at | | | | the gym on various machines or weights. A great |
| the gym five days a week, alternating between an | | | | way to start up conversations with them is to offer |
| hour of cardio and an hour of weight training. | | | | them advice or feedback on their form. |
| And that time at the gym adds up! Some people | | | | Just make sure that it's "friendly" suggestions, and |
| even go further by joining classes, getting a personal | | | | that you're not telling them they're doing things |
| trainer, and hanging out at the local juice bar. So it's | | | | wrong. |
| no surprise that because some of us spend so much | | | | People at the gym who work out without personal |
| time at the gym, we'd like to know how to meet | | | | trainers usually have mistakes in how they are using |
| women there! | | | | machines or performing a certain exercise. So if you |
| After all, it's not just the fact that some guys spend | | | | can offer them some tips on how to make their |
| a lot of time working out at the gym, there's also | | | | workout more effective, they'll actually really |
| the fact that some very attractive women spend a | | | | appreciate it! |
| lot of time there too! (In an effort to remain as | | | | And once you offer them your advice, you can start |
| attractive as possible, of course.) | | | | asking them about their training goals, and carry on |
| But as much as it makes sense to try and meet girls | | | | the conversation from there. |
| during your workout, it can seem like a very daunting | | | | This is a very effective way of meeting girls who are |
| task! But if you know a few simple tricks for meeting | | | | weight training. |
| women at the gym, you might be surprised to find | | | | TIP #4: Join A Class |
| that it's actually easier to do than you think. | | | | Most gyms offer a variety of classes you can sign |
| Let's go through the tips now... | | | | up for. These range from yoga, to spinning, to |
| TIP #1: Taking Advantage Of Cardio | | | | dancing, etc. |
| Typically, people will do cardio workouts for | | | | Here's a tip - most of these classes are filled by a |
| anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour. Let's face it, | | | | majority of WOMEN. So taking a class can give you a |
| that's a LONG time to do nothing but run in place! | | | | tremendous opportunity to meet girls! |
| If you see an attractive girl you'd like to meet doing | | | | Not only that, but many classes can become social |
| cardio, see if you can get on a machine next to her | | | | functions, and give you excuses to talk and chit-chat |
| to do your cardio. This will give you the opportunity | | | | with girls. I can't tell you how many girls I've dated |
| to start up a conversation with her. | | | | because I was the only guy in their class at the gym. |
| You'll be amazed at how easy it is to talk to | | | | You'll also notice a lot of the girls in your classes also |
| someone when they're doing a cardio workout, and | | | | work out at the gym, so you have a great way of |
| that's because cardio is BORING. The girl will typically | | | | meeting them if you see them in the general training |
| be watching closed-caption TV, flipping through a | | | | area. Just approach them and say "Hey, aren't you in |
| magazine, or listening to music on an iPod. But talking | | | | my spinning (or whatever) class?" |
| to someone can pass the time just as fast, and as | | | | Seriously, it does not get much easier than that! |
| long as your approach is smooth, she'll be more than | | | | TIP #5: Take Advantage Of The Juice Bar |
| willing to chat with you! | | | | Most gyms nowadays have some type of juice bar, |
| TIP #2: Find Out Her Playlist | | | | or place where you can sit down and drink a protein |
| One of the biggest obstacles guys face at the gym | | | | shake or smoothie. Take advantage of this when |
| is competing with iPods. People like to listen to music | | | | you're trying to meet women at the gym! |
| when they work out, and seeing a pair of ear-plugs | | | | There are two ways you can utilize a juice bar... |
| can scare you off from starting a conversation. | | | | The first is to invite women you meet while working |
| But I've found that actually asking the woman about | | | | out to join you for a drink. This is a great way to do |
| the music she listens to when working out is a great | | | | an "instant date" after meeting a girl. Instead of |
| way to not only get her to listen to you instead of | | | | letting the girl just leave after she's done working |
| music, but a good way to quickly bond with her over | | | | out, ask her if she'd be interested in grabbing a drink |
| mutual interests. | | | | with you at the smoothie bar. |
| The way I do it, is I'll try and get the girl's attention, | | | | Then, sit down and chit-chat with her. It's just like |
| either by waving at her or tapping her on her | | | | getting coffee together, but much quicker and easier. |
| shoulder. This will get her to pause her music and | | | | The second way to use the juice bar area is to |
| look at me. Then I'll say... | | | | actually see if there are any women you'd like to |
| "Sorry to bother you, do you mind if I ask what | | | | meet there already, and ask to join them while you |
| music you're listening to?" | | | | drink your beverage. Most women won't refuse you, |
| When she give you her answer, you can respond: | | | | and you can start chit-chatting with them after you |
| "I'm getting kind of bored with my music, so I'm | | | | sit down. |
| looking for some new stuff to listen to during my | | | | Ultimately, there are lots of great ways to meet |
| workout. What kind of music do you think is the best | | | | women during your workout. Just keep trying |
| to workout to?" | | | | different methods until you find one that works for |
| From there, I can start talking about favorite bands, | | | | you. |