| If you're a single woman, you've heard the advice | | | | One mistake that many women make when they |
| that playing hard to get is always the way to go. | | | | are trying to establish a deeper connection with a |
| Even in today's dating world, that advice has a lot of | | | | man they are interested in is they become intimate |
| truth to it. We all know that men love the thrill of the | | | | with him very quickly. Obviously the man isn't going |
| chase and if you want to get and keep the man of | | | | to complain, but in his mind he may be wondering if |
| your dreams you have to be willing to make him | | | | this is your normal behavior and if every man you |
| work to gain your affection. If you want to make | | | | date gets the same treat. You don't want to come |
| him chase you, you need to understand exactly how | | | | across as a tease, but it's a very good idea to hold |
| to balance igniting his interest with being a little aloof. | | | | off on the intimacy until you've let him chase after |
| There's been a lot of talk in the inner circles of single | | | | you a bit. If you give him everything up front, the |
| women about the benefit of being a bit standoffish | | | | pursuit of your affection becomes much less |
| when you first start seeing a man. Although you | | | | interesting to him. Enjoy his company, but don't take |
| don't want to come across as being disinterested, | | | | things to the next level too soon. |
| you do want to create the illusion that you aren't at | | | | Don't put on a false front if you want to make him |
| his beck and call. This means you should not always | | | | chase you. Some women think they need to |
| be available when he wants to see you and you | | | | embellish details of their lives in order to get a man |
| should be a bit mysterious about what your plans are. | | | | interested. This approach will almost always backfire |
| Don't overtly say that you are seeing someone else, | | | | on you. You need to relax and completely be |
| but hold back some details. You might want to tell | | | | yourself when you are with him. Don't stifle any part |
| him that you are having dinner with a friend. If you | | | | of your personality and don't try and be something |
| want to make him chase you, you must not appear | | | | you're not. A man is interested in the real woman, |
| too eager. This is one rule you simply can't ignore. | | | | not the woman you wish you were. |