| One of the things that I see happening amongst | | | | possessive type. If you are in a club and you are |
| guys that are kind of at their wit's end about figuring | | | | trying to hold too tightly onto a woman's attention-- |
| out how to get a girlfriend is, they end up thinking | | | | you seem desperate and a little too needy for her. |
| that there is a lack or a scarcity of attractive women | | | | And she will usually walk away and hope to find |
| that are out there. And I have to say, that my | | | | another guy. |
| experience has been the complete opposite. And | | | | You have to get rid of the scarcity mindset that |
| compared to most guys, I have higher standards. | | | | makes you believe that there are not enough |
| So, what makes the difference? | | | | women out there. |
| In the self improvement world, there is a lot of talk | | | | Do yourself a favor sometime, and just really take a |
| about having an attitude of abundance, and having an | | | | look around. Take a trip to a crowded shopping mall, |
| attitude of scarcity. Those that believe the world to | | | | to a museum filled with people, anywhere that a lot |
| be abundant, seem to have an easier time attracting | | | | of people are congregating. Look around, and just |
| all of the things that they want in life. And those that | | | | become AWARE of how many attractive women |
| seem to think everything is scarce seem to have a | | | | there are. I have to tell you, sometimes it seems like |
| hard time. | | | | there are just too many, and not enough time to |
| How does this relate to getting a girlfriend? | | | | date them all! |
| Well, when you think that there are not enough | | | | Find new places to meet women. |
| women out there, you are going to start to get a | | | | I got up with a friend of mine not too long ago, and |
| little desperate. I mean, a lot of guys have told me, | | | | we have kind of gone our separate ways over the |
| that there just are not a lot of attractive women out | | | | years. Well, like most guys, he seemed to be having |
| there. Like I said, my experience has been the exact | | | | a tough time meeting women. So, I invited him to go |
| opposite of this. And if you believe that there are | | | | out on a Friday night, and hit the clubs that I usually |
| not many attractive, available women out there, the | | | | frequent. This guy's jaw practically dropped to the |
| minute you come into contact with one, you are | | | | floor when he saw how many hot women were in |
| going to feel like you have to hold on to her. | | | | there. |
| What happens when you try and hold on to a | | | | His problem was not that there are not enough |
| woman too tightly? | | | | attractive women, he was just looking in ALL the |
| She usually leaves. If you are in a relationship and you | | | | wrong places! |
| hold on too tightly-- you are the jealous and | | | | |