| Hidden Success Secret #5 for Finding Love on the | | | | Trying to avoid being alone is very different from |
| Internet | | | | wanting to share your life with a loving mate. As a |
| DROP THE SHAME | | | | psychologist...when someone tells me that they have |
| Do you avoid telling other people that you are using | | | | joined the world of online dating, I think the following |
| online dating services to find love? Why do you hide | | | | things: |
| it? Are you embarrassed? | | | | First: Good for him: he is not afraid to admit that he |
| Or worse yet... Are you ashamed to admit that you | | | | wants to love and be loved... and his chances of |
| are actively looking for love? Does membership on | | | | finding love... just increased dramatically. |
| dating sites mean that you are desperate? Needy? | | | | Secondly: She isn't just sitting at home, waiting for |
| Before we go any further... I need to tell you... | | | | love to come knocking on her door. That's not likely |
| THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH | | | | to happen...unless you hit it off with the cable guy. |
| ADMITTING THAT: | | | | Lastly: Every time a single person tells others that he |
| You want love in your life; and You are willing to do | | | | she is looking for love on the Internet...it makes it |
| something active to find it. After all, isn't that what | | | | easier for someone else to sign up, without fear of |
| life is all about? | | | | being desperate or needy. |
| Loving and Being Loved? Do you compare yourself | | | | If you're still feeling hesitant about signing on, just try |
| to others--now married or in long-term | | | | it out for one month: knowing that you never have |
| relationships--who seemed to have found love quickly | | | | to contact anyone unless you want to do so. I would |
| or easily? Have you convinced yourself that you are | | | | suggest that you sign up for at least 2 of the three |
| desperate and they are not? | | | | big ones, as they have more members and they all |
| Do you look around and see other people--once | | | | have established positive reputations: |
| single--who didn't seem to have any trouble finding | | | | If you're unsure about posting a photo on line, you |
| someone to love fairly quickly? | | | | can always wait until you're more comfortable. After |
| Have you decided that there might be something | | | | some experience looking at profiles, you can decide if |
| unattractive or unlovable about you? Is there | | | | it's worth posting a photo on the site. |
| something wrong with you....that you have to go | | | | You can choose to never post a photoon an online |
| looking for love and 'they' did not? | | | | dating site: that doesn't mean that your matches will |
| Consider for a moment... that some of those people... | | | | be any different: they just won't include the people |
| certainly not all... but some... could be called | | | | who won't even look at a profile, without a photo. |
| "desperate" to avoid being alone. Who is more | | | | Please feel free to contact me with any feedback |
| desperate--the person who wants "to be married | | | | about your experience looking for love online or any |
| above all else" or the person who wants to make | | | | questions you might have... I love hearing from you. |
| the right choice of a partner? | | | | |