| Why do some women always have men pursuing | | | | Never go out of the house without looking your best. |
| them, no matter what their age? I have a friend who | | | | Even if you are headed to the gym or a run around |
| is 74 who continually has interesting successful men | | | | the block, put on some lipstick and comb your hair. |
| asking her out. When I grow up, I want to be like | | | | Know what colors you look good in, and wear |
| her. She has sparkle. She has charm. She is a man | | | | attractive clothes in your best shades. Men are |
| magnet. | | | | attracted to pink-peach. That color is flattering to |
| Recently, I asked a popular man magnet what some | | | | most skin tones. People are also attracted to you |
| of her strategies were for attracting men, and | | | | when you are wearing the color(s) of your eyes. |
| research substantiates many of her points. Here are | | | | (You have multiple colors in your eyes--choose |
| five secret tips to help you attract the man you | | | | clothes that include one of those colors.) |
| want: | | | | * Be aware of your body language. |
| * Stand in the middle of the room. | | | | Body language is everything. Smile a lot, look people |
| Whenever you go to a party, try standing in the | | | | in the eyes, and when you see someone you are |
| center of the room. (Don't hunch your shoulders, | | | | interested in, tilt your head, drop your eyes, and then |
| slouch, or wear a pair of shoes that hurt your feet | | | | look back at him. This may sound contrived, but it |
| so much you can't stand to stand.) Move around a | | | | helps to know what subliminal messages are being |
| little, talk with people near you, but if you want to | | | | sent by your actions. Apparently, giving your hair a |
| be in a position to choose who you want to meet, | | | | slight flip is also an attraction signal, as well as |
| never sit down. Stand smack dab in the middle of the | | | | stroking the inside of your arm or your neck. If a |
| crowd. When you see someone interesting, move | | | | man is standing across the room, this is one way to |
| near them--gracefully-- and start a conversation. | | | | let him know that you would be interested in talking |
| * Stand at the corners of the bar. | | | | to him. |
| If you are at a bar, pub, or nightclub, staying at the | | | | * What not to do. |
| corners of the bar is a good position. It's easier to | | | | Attractive women know not to: talk about |
| meet people there. Bartenders tend to talk to the | | | | themselves non-stop, fold their arms, chew gum, pick |
| people at the corners also. The worst place to be | | | | at their nails, jiggle their foot, or crunch ice. All of this |
| seen is hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table | | | | behavior suggests anxiety, frustration, or poor |
| or booth with other people. You are more difficult to | | | | manners. Also--don't talk about your Ex. That is a |
| approach if you are in a huddle with others. Go places | | | | major turn off. |
| with friends, but break away from them periodically | | | | When you go out and see attractive single men you |
| and talk to people on your own. | | | | want to meet, practice the above five secrets. Being |
| * Look your best. | | | | a man magnet simply means that you are in control |
| This may sound too obvious, but you never know | | | | of the outcome of your evening, your week, and |
| where or when you are going to meet someone. | | | | your life. Enjoy the adventure! |