| You're crazy about a man and he says he isn't ready | | | | and tell you that he's just not in a place where he |
| for a relationship. What exactly does that mean? In | | | | can see himself having a serious relationship. That |
| your eyes, a committed relationship is the next | | | | degree of vulnerability is not what you need. |
| obvious step. Obviously he sees things much | | | | A much more effective approach to take if you're |
| differently. Essentially what he's telling you is that he's | | | | certain that a committed relationship with you is |
| not ready to date or see just you. Naturally that's | | | | something he sees on the horizon is to help speed up |
| going to sting a bit and bruise your ego too. Are you | | | | the process. Right now your relationship is resting in |
| just going to accept that or do you want more? If | | | | the palm of his hand. You likely are there anytime he |
| you're not prepared to wait forever for him to | | | | wants to see you. You pick up every time he calls |
| decide when he's ready for the two of you to have | | | | and you dissect his emails and text messages looking |
| a relationship, don't. You have just as much influence | | | | for clues of his hidden love and devotion to you. All |
| over the future you two share as he does. Never let | | | | of that stops today. |
| a man hold your romantic fate in his hands. | | | | The way to get him ready for the relationship you |
| Your reaction when he says he isn't ready for a | | | | want is to change the relationship you have now. |
| relationship is crucial. Obviously, you feel disconnected | | | | You're not getting what you want or need from it so |
| when a man you care for tells you this. You realize, in | | | | continuing in it, exactly as it is, will never get you |
| that very instant, that what you feel doesn't balance | | | | what you desire. |
| at all with what he's feeling. That deep and | | | | Pull back a bit and refocus your attention on the |
| unwavering connection you felt for him isn't there in | | | | most important person in your life, you. If he feels |
| his eyes. What is there is a casual and uncommitted | | | | that you're not ready, willing and able to wait for him |
| dating relationship. | | | | to decide when the ideal time for a relationship is, he'll |
| Talking to him about where you stand versus where | | | | see things differently. Sometimes taking a step back |
| he stands seems logical, doesn't it? You'll throw your | | | | will give you both a fresh perspective on things. |
| heart out there for him to see and he'll push it aside | | | | |