| Over the course of the next month, I'm going to be | | | | theory and put it in action: |
| taking part in a 30-day challenge designed to increase | | | | 1. Set a firm date and time. Saying that you'll do |
| my confidence and improve my interactions with | | | | something tomorrow or later will almost certainly |
| women. It's something that I've been meaning to do | | | | guarantee that they won't get done. If you plan on |
| for quite some time, but with my schedule at work | | | | going out and practicing your interactions with |
| and my commitments to friends and family I've been | | | | women, set an exact time, place and date. This |
| unable to do so. | | | | makes it measurable and real. |
| Attracting a woman is like any other skill, if left alone | | | | 2. Come up with a game plan. Choose a venue such |
| for a considerable amount of time it will diminish. In | | | | as a mall or a club and make arrangements for how |
| order to maintain your confidence and your state of | | | | you'll attend. If the club requires reservations make |
| mind it's important that you get out and immerse | | | | sure you book them ahead of schedule. Plan for |
| yourself in social situations whenever humanly | | | | what you intend to wear, who will accompany you if |
| possible. | | | | anyone and if your venue is outdoors be sure you |
| There is nothing that replicates real world experience. | | | | check the weather forecast. |
| No matter how many articles or books you read, it | | | | 3. What do you want to accomplish? Jot down a list |
| can never substitute from the knowledge gained | | | | of key objectives you want to accomplish. How |
| through actual physical interactions. | | | | many girls do you want to interact with? What |
| A lot of guys get caught up in the theory behind | | | | marks a successful interaction? A number close, a |
| attraction. They go out and purchase every DVD and | | | | commitment for a date? Etc. |
| audio book they can get their hands on. They attend | | | | 4. Make good on your promises. If you plan on going |
| seminars and boot camps and brag to their friends | | | | out on a certain date, do it! It's easy to come up |
| about the amount of knowledge and information | | | | with a million reasons why you shouldn't go out, but |
| they've obtained. But at the end of the day how | | | | there's also a million and one reasons why you should. |
| much has this information really helped the men who | | | | If you want to improve and achieve greater success |
| have learned it? | | | | with women you need to go out. |
| There's an old saying, "those who can, do; and those | | | | 5. Take notes from your outing. What worked? |
| who can't, teach." | | | | What didn't work? If something you did or said was |
| Regurgitating information is easy, actually putting that | | | | met with a positive response, build on it. If something |
| learned theory into practice is hard. It's with this | | | | wasn't successful, take a look at what went wrong |
| notion in mind that I put together my 30-day | | | | and brainstorm ways to correct it. |
| challenge. | | | | Run through these five steps at least once a month. |
| One of the hardest things that men face when going | | | | You'll find that the first couple attempts are a |
| out into the field is overcoming the fear of rejection. | | | | challenge, but after several attempts you'll begin to |
| This fear can be crippling and extremely self-limiting. | | | | notice a change in your demeanor and the way in |
| In fact, this fear can be so strong at times that it | | | | which women interact with you. Your confidence will |
| completely hinders men from going out into the field | | | | improve and the women you interact with will |
| altogether. | | | | definitely take notice. |
| The best way to overcome this fear is by diving in | | | | If you're feeling really ambitious, I invite you to join |
| head first, the more thought and analysis you put | | | | me on my 30-day challenge. The road of dating |
| into it, the more you will psych out yourself. Don't | | | | improvement is a rough and bumpy one, full of many |
| hesitate, just get out there and dive in. | | | | ups and downs. It's a tough journey but the rewards |
| Here are five easy steps for how to take your | | | | are definitely worth it. |