| There are some very good reasons why the | | | | know that you are actually interested in his point of |
| workplace is one of the most excellent places for | | | | view or opinion. |
| women to meet men. You can broaden your range | | | | Use fun questions to get to know someone. Initiate |
| of social contacts and make new friends amongst | | | | a topic and get to know your coworkers while you |
| people who have much in common with you. If you | | | | maintain a relaxed atmosphere. It can be as simple as |
| are one of the shy types, this common ground is a | | | | "What do you think about the subject?" or "What do |
| wonderful opportunity for you to sharpen your | | | | you think is the right response to this situation?" It |
| communication skills, as well as getting to know | | | | lets him know that you care what he thinks. This |
| individual people. | | | | give-and-take of ideas may spur a debate or an |
| The communication skills which you have learned on | | | | agreement; either way, you will be learning the knack |
| the job are equally relevant to getting to know the | | | | of positive communication. |
| men you work with. If you have learned how to be | | | | If you are interested in dating this man, you can shift |
| a good listener, truly caring about what the other | | | | the focus from the workplace to the social arena by |
| person has to say, this is as important when | | | | using fun questions about hobbies, sports or movies. |
| communicating with your male coworkers as it is with | | | | When you discover what you have in common, by |
| your boss or your manager. | | | | asking him what he likes to do in his free time, this |
| Good communication also means being able to talk | | | | can open up the possibility of turning a mutual hobby |
| without monopolizing the conversation. The most | | | | or interest into a date. |
| effective form of conversation is the one in which | | | | The workplace is a great place for using fun |
| both persons are sharing ideas, thoughts, and | | | | questions to get to know someone. In addition to |
| viewpoints. Instead of looking at a conversation as a | | | | being one of the easiest ways to break the ice in |
| monologue, where the person you are speaking to | | | | general, you will probably also find that you have |
| needs to "wait his turn" to say something, let him | | | | much in common with the men you meet at work. |