Facebook Dating Secrets - How to Meet Women on Facebook

I am no dating expert or guru, I am just an averageneed to do now is get attraction so lets talk about
every day guy living a regular existence who hashow to do that on Facebook.
been able to transform his dating life and have a lotIntroducing the SCAN method
of success meeting women. Over the past couple ofSearch is the first step in your quest to meeting an
years I have seen MySpace transform my own andattractive woman in your social circle. Now lets
many other people's social lives. Now Facebook hasassume you have 100 friends on Facebook who all
produced an exceptionally great opportunity for anyknow around 20 that you don't know and that those
average guy to meet amazing women that theypeople know another 20 people that you don't know.
would have never had the chance to meetApplying the principle of the Six Degrees of
previously.Separation I am going to assume your social network
First I am going to tell you why Facebook presentsgoes five to six chains wide before you lose the
this exceptional opportunity for you and then I amconnection. If you do the maths you will soon realize
going to tell you the how. It is important you do notyou have more people than you think in your
skip this section because in this case understandingextended network. I find it best not to approach
the why may be just as if not more important thannew women in my immediate social circle if I don't
the how. Given that over 60% of Facebook usersknow they are single because I do not want to
are women let me try and determine why this is theupset my social circle.
case and why it is critical for your to understand.So for example if I click on my friend John's profile
Why do women love social networking sites? Back inclick view friends then find Sophie who is rather
the old days when we used to live in tribes ofattract, then click view her friends this is the degree
around 100 people men used to be depended on forof separation I am looking for. Close enough to be in
the survival of their family. Women and their childrentouch and still have commonality yet not close
depended on their man to provide for and protectenough to upset any of males in my friend circle who
for them, without a man a woman and her familymight be courting the attractive woman. This is
would usually die. There were no social services inimportant because you do not want men and
those days. Men developed a strongly independencewomen in your social circle working against you, you
as they had to depend on themselves for their ownwant them working on your side talking you up and
survival and the survival of their offspring.helping you out.
Men who were abundant in the wealth could provideConnect is the next step after you have found a
for their family and were seen as attractive asfew women who are a friend of a friend then you
they're men who had great strength and fitness whowant to contact them via the send message feature.
could protect their family. Men who had leadershipWarning do not poke or add as a friend until after
and dominance were seen as attractive as they hadyou have connected with them. There is a big
the power to lead others and provide and protectdifference between contacting a woman online and
their families thus men who also possessed theseactually connecting with her. Does she respond to
skills also found it easy to attract a female partner.your message? When then you have made a
Women on the other hand had another set ofconnection.
qualities which they developed in order to increaseI have noticed ever since I started spying on other
the likelihood of their survival and that of their family.guys that my "competition" typically do two things
This can be best described as having greatwrong. They only write one or two lines and make it
communication skills. Women depended on keeping ageneric and the woman does not respond because
great relationship with their man for their ownthe guy is a stranger and doesn't offer anything
survival as losing them would mean certain death.interesting about himself. Some guys make the
They also had to master the art of communicationmistake off writing way to much which telegraphs
with their children and families. Over thousands oftoo much interest and turns the woman off. Each
years this characteristics have been hard wired intoway can be like a cancer to your success meeting
our brains so that men and women will excel atwomen online.
certain skills.Here is a tip, write 8-12 lines or 2-3 paragraphs
Today women can provide for themselves, they canmaximum, then I recommend you try and shorten it
easily get a job and by their own food andto 5-8 lines by cutting out the fluff and making your
resources, they are not dependent on men forwords more powerful and more meaningful. You
survival. Today women's greatest skill is the one theywant to make sure you include a call to action in
most need to learn if they want to survive in theevery email you send out to a woman which leads to
modern world. Learning how to communicateyou both taking the first step. Make sure you only
effectively is the key for men thriving and survivingtake it one step at a time so as not to telegraph too
in the modern world. There is no point in owning amuch interest or put too much pressure on the
billion dollar technology company or being the biggest,woman up front. The first call to action might simply
stronger guy in the gym if you can effectivelybe to mail you back, the second might be to ask for
communicate with a woman so that she staysher IM or phone number, the third might be to talk
around. Women do not have to wait around for mento her on the phone and the fourth to meet up with
these days so communication is critical to attractingher etc.
and keeping women.Attract is the next thing you need to ensure you are
Today people still live in tribes except they go underdoing. Use emotional language in your writing too
a different name, they are called called socialappeal to a woman, get her excited to respond to
networks today. Networks are a powerful influenceher. Make sure you have a great headline to make
over our every day life, the biggest more powerfulsure she responds to your email. It's not that hard
networks can control an entire city, country or evenbecause most guys headlines are so bad, try using
an entire region. Advertising and media companiesthere name in the headline it will increase your
which now consist of a majority of femaleresponse dramatically. I have already talked about a
employees communicate with us on a daily basisfew of the male fitness indicators in this article so
whether we want them to or not. Communication isnow I want to think about how you can apply them
key to surviving and thriving in the modern era.to your profile.
In a nutshell what I teach men is the communicationNegotiate is the next step, you need to negotiate
and attraction skills they need to know to build theirtalking on the phone and going on a date or to a
social network and attract more of the type ofparty together. You are the one who is responsible
women they want to meet. The great news is it canfor this part of the proceedings, you are the man
be done very quickly even in a matter of daysyou need to take the lead. Make sure you already
sometimes as your success building a strong networkhave decided where you want to take her before
will often snowball into building up even more.you talk to her on the phone, make it casual and
Traditionally only the guys who women wererelaxed so it appeals to her. She is single and looking
naturally attracted to at a young age or wereto meet someone but she does not want a guy who
surrounded by women in high school developed theis all over her. You have got her interest and built
best communication skills and the biggest socialsome attraction so now you have to add some logic
networks.to give her a rationalization for meeting with you or
The reason why I endorse developing skills atgetting physical with you. I am not saying you need
meeting women using social networking skills is that itto sell her on the idea, I am just saying you need to
is actually a whole lot easier. People who are in yourstate the next step so it makes sense in line with
social circle typically assume you are somewhat alikewhat she is already thinking. Trying saying something
as like minded people usually spend their timelike "hey you seem like a pretty interesting person,
together. If you go to a party filled with millionaireslets meet at this party/coffee shop I am going to be
and beautiful women they are going to assume thatat on friday night and see if we get along."
you are a millionaire who attracts beautiful womenFacebook presents a great opportunity to meet a
even if you are flat broke. If you go to a party fullton of women with no fear of rejection if you follow
of poor arts students then they are going to assumethese simple steps. With just under a million more
you are a poor arts student even if you are awomen on Facebook than men in the United States
millionaire. This works to your advantage becausealone and similar figures world wide this is truly a
there is already some assumed rapport theregreat opportunity for you to take advantage of.
because you are in the same social circle. All you