| If you are a single guy and have been for any | | | | there are a LOT of single women out there that are |
| amount of time really, then you probably know what | | | | attractive and pretty fun to be around. You have to |
| it feels like to be a tad on the desperate side to | | | | have this mindset if you want to change your |
| meet a woman that you can spend some quality | | | | situation and start meeting and attracting women. |
| time with. One of the things that tends to hold back | | | | Second, you need to face the facts and see what |
| a lot of single guys from being able to meet and | | | | areas you are lacking in. For some guys, it all comes |
| attract women is that, well, women can tell that they | | | | down to the fact that they just really do not even |
| are desperate. And you know what? | | | | try to meet and attract women. They are |
| Desperation will be your Achilles heel if you want to | | | | comfortably numb just wishing that they could |
| become successful at meeting women, picking up | | | | attract their dream girl, without actually having the |
| women, and dating women. It's like a smoke signal | | | | motivation to go out and do it. |
| that kind of goes up and every woman within a 10 | | | | If that is where you stand, then you need to face |
| mile radius can spot it. You do not want to let a | | | | those facts and make a change. |
| woman think of you as being desperate to get a | | | | Third, you have to understand what triggers female |
| girlfriend if you want to, well, get a girlfriend. | | | | attraction and what YOU can do to make a woman |
| Is it kind of a catch 22? | | | | feel like she has just met a great guy when she gets |
| You bet. I mean, if you had a girlfriend, or you were | | | | to know you. If you can make a girl feel this way |
| having a lot of success attracting women, then of | | | | about you, then your chances with her are pretty |
| course you would not seem to be desperate. But, | | | | good and maybe then, the desperation will just fade |
| until you do actually attract women, you are going to | | | | away. |
| be...desperate! | | | | Until then, you have to keep yourself in check and |
| What can you do? | | | | not do anything at all to give off that signal that you |
| First of all, you have to adopt the mentality that | | | | are desperate for a girlfriend. |