| Chances are, if you are going to date attractive | | | | from other guys: |
| women, then competition from other guys is going | | | | 1. Don't even think about it. |
| to become a part of your reality. It goes with the | | | | Women have some kind of jedi mastermind that lets |
| territory, kind of like celebrities and paparazzi. So, | | | | them pick up on a guy's insecurity right away. The |
| you have to accept that this is going to happen | | | | minute you become insecure and feel like you might |
| from time to time. Yes, if you enter into a club, | | | | lose her to another guy, she picks up on this. She |
| a restaurant, a bar, with a good looking girl-- | | | | might not say anything about it, but she definitely |
| other guys are going to be checking her out and | | | | notices. And if that insecurity keeps getting |
| some of them are even going to try and hit on her. | | | | stronger, the more you will find that she DOES end |
| So, what do you do in this kind of a situation? | | | | up flirting with another guy. |
| Well, some guys will automatically decide that they | | | | 2. Don't get caught up in thinking that you need to |
| do not want to have to deal with this, and they will | | | | put down the other guy. |
| end up dating only regular looking girls. Of course, | | | | Not only does this make you seem insecure, but it |
| that is not much of a solution, is it? I mean, | | | | will also usually end up backfiring on you. Let's say |
| guess what? Even average looking girls are going | | | | that one of your guy friends starts hitting on a girl |
| to get checked out by some guys. | | | | that you are out with, and you immediately start |
| The first thing that you have to REALIZE is, if you | | | | trash talking about him to her. Well, it's only going |
| are doing things right, then there really is NO | | | | to reflect bad on YOU. Why? Because she will |
| competition at all! | | | | kind of evaluate what you are saying, and if she |
| I did not understand this when I was younger. I | | | | does not agree with it, you start to lose points |
| would date a good looking girl, and as soon as we | | | | with her. Let's say you bring up the fact that he is |
| got around some guys, I would automatically feel | | | | a total loser. She is going to look at see things |
| like they were trying to "steal" her away from me. | | | | about him that don't make him a loser. Why girls |
| Now, knowing these guys, they really were | | | | mind's work like this, I can't tell ya, I just know |
| trying. The thing is, it would never work as long | | | | that they do. |
| as I did not let it bother me. The minute that I did | | | | 3. Do YOUR thing right, and you don't have to |
| let it bother me, was the minute she would start | | | | worry about it. |
| flirting back with THEM! | | | | Unless she has some serious issues that make her |
| So, I tried something else. I decided not to let it | | | | bounce from guy to guy, the only chance that you |
| bother me, to kind of assume that no matter what, | | | | really have of losing her is if you let the attraction |
| she still wanted me. And you know what? | | | | that she feels for you start to die out. Like I said, |
| It started to work! | | | | I no longer worry about it, and it does not affect |
| From that point on, I never let myself worry about | | | | me in any way. Now, I have been out with a |
| competition from other guys. And I have never had | | | | beautiful woman before and had guys try and flirt |
| an experience where another guy has "taken" a | | | | with her. And you want to know what they usually |
| woman away from me, no matter how hot she is, | | | | do? The put the guy down! They will say |
| and no matter how hard he might try, it's just not | | | | something like, "OMG, did you see him try to hit on |
| going to happen. | | | | me? What a jerk. |
| Here are my tips on how to deal with competition | | | | |