| One thing that I like to do from time to time, is to | | | | body, but a woman knows that she can attract |
| join a group of single women at a club or a bar, and | | | | guys. That's not the issue. The issue is, can she |
| kind of pick their brain when it comes to dating and | | | | attract a guy that is fun to be around. And a guy |
| relationships. I like to think of it as "market research" | | | | that has a playful sense of humor is going to be a lot |
| in a way. | | | | more fun for her to be around. |
| I have to tell you, some of the things that women | | | | 2. A sense of style. |
| will say about dating might SHOCK you. | | | | Take a look at some of the high profile guys that |
| I also want to point out that even just a few years | | | | are successful with women. Guys that are pro |
| ago, I would have never been the kind of guy to | | | | athletes, entertainers, and actors. Most of them have |
| just target a group of single women and just get | | | | a very unique style about them. Now, take a look at |
| them to open up and talk about dating and | | | | most guys that you see at the mall or just around |
| relationships. | | | | town. Most of them look pretty much the same as |
| What most guys seem to think about women is | | | | one another, not many of them have their own |
| completely and totally off base. They think that | | | | signature look. |
| women want be treated like little princesses and | | | | Well, when a guy has that signature look, his own |
| want to meet a guy with a great secure job, and | | | | style that makes him stand out in a crowd, women |
| honestly, most women are not really putting these | | | | take notice. I was at a club one time with 4 young |
| things too high on their priority list. | | | | women, and there was this guy there that to me, |
| Now, I will say that none of these are absolutes. | | | | looked kind of foolish. But to tell you the truth, he did |
| Yes, you are going to come across some women | | | | stand out. And I pointed this guy out to these girls |
| that basically expect to be treated like a queen, and | | | | and asked them if they liked that look. All 4 of them |
| you are going to find women that tend to focus on | | | | nodded their heads and said that they did. I asked |
| finding a guy with that secure job and that is more | | | | why, and the basic thought was just simply, that he |
| important than anything else. | | | | had his own style. And they were all impressed with |
| But, the broad majority of single women that I come | | | | that. |
| across, do not bring these things up that much. And | | | | 3. A sense of confidence. |
| even when they do, it usually comes after a long list | | | | I know, you hear it till you are blue in the face. |
| of other things. | | | | Women dig a guy with confidence. Well, the reason |
| Here are the top three topics or really qualities that | | | | why you hear it till you are blue in the face is |
| the broad majority of women seem to rate highly in | | | | because it is true. Think about it like this. A woman |
| men that they would be interested in dating: | | | | does look at a man as kind of a "protector" of sorts, |
| | | | it doesn't matter how modern of a woman she is, |
| 1. A sense of humor. | | | | she is still going to look at him through those eyes. |
| This one might surprise a lot of guys, not because | | | | Now, picture that same woman looking at a guy that |
| you don't think that a woman wants a guy that can | | | | does not have the confidence to be himself or to |
| make her laugh, but on how important this one | | | | speak up when needed. Is she going to feel that |
| quality is. And if you really look at it and think about | | | | same protection from him? No, she is going to |
| it, it makes a lot of sense. Women are open to a lot | | | | disconnect from that feeling, and when that happens, |
| more dating opportunities than guys are. | | | | the attraction also usually seems to go out the |
| You might not care so much about whether or not a | | | | window. |
| woman makes you laugh, especially if she has a good | | | | |