| Who knew? | | | | those you may have already made. I like to say... |
| Relationships are hard work! They take time, care | | | | "None of us were born knowing how to create and |
| and nurturing. When you tend properly to your | | | | sustain a great relationship. We have to learn how to |
| relationship, it is fabulous and brings happiness beyond | | | | do it right." |
| your wildest dreams. When you don't put in the time, | | | | Here are two common mistakes and how to fix or |
| effort and thought, your relationship is JACKED UP | | | | avoid them. |
| and you suffer the consequences. | | | | 1. NOT INVESTING ENOUGH TIME IN YOUR |
| Do you feel like you may never find the love of your | | | | RELATIONSHIP |
| life? Are you in a relationship that's a bit off track? | | | | Sometimes life just gets in the way of quality |
| Do you just want to find a good person you can | | | | relationship time. The best way to avoid this is to |
| settle down with - your soul mate? Have you been | | | | maintain the habits you practiced when the |
| searching for love and all you have to show for your | | | | relationship was fresh and new --- when everything |
| efforts is a string of unsatisfying relationships that | | | | you did revolved around that special person. |
| went nowhere? Or worse yet, do you never get to | | | | However, if you are already in a place where the |
| decide if someone is right for you because you can't | | | | time is minimal with your partner, then you need to |
| even find a decent date? | | | | schedule time together. It may be a fancy date out, |
| Relationships and dating are tricky things. Whether | | | | or just a night in front of the fireplace --- just the |
| you are dating or married, there is so much stuff | | | | two of you. |
| that you need to know. What to do or say. What | | | | 2. YOU'RE LOVERS BUT YOU REALLY AREN'T |
| not to do or say. When to do or say. When not to | | | | FRIENDS. (YOU MAY NOT EVEN REALLY LIKE EACH |
| do or say. How to say or do. How not to say or do. | | | | OTHER!) |
| And on and on. One wrong decision can wreck a | | | | Being friends is vital in any relationship. It allows you |
| perfectly good relationship, or stop a potentially good | | | | to always have someone to talk to about anything, |
| relationship from developing. | | | | any time, with unconditional support. The best |
| I have been a Life Coach and relationship advisor for | | | | long-term relationships start this way. In all future |
| several years. During this time I have seen the same | | | | relationships, make sure that you get to know the |
| relationship mistakes made again and again - by | | | | person first by sharing yourself and letting them be |
| married folks, as well as those in a committed dating | | | | your friend. Encourage them to share their heart and |
| relationship, those just beginning to date, and those | | | | be a friend to them. If you find yourself in a |
| who are single and looking to mingle. | | | | friendless relationship, look for similarities you can use |
| Over the years I have done research on the | | | | to start forming a foundation of friendship. If you |
| relationship mistakes that I have seen made over and | | | | truly don't like the person, get out of the relationship |
| over. I have spoken to thousands of couples, singles | | | | immediately! It won't get better. |
| and married folks to determine the absolute worst | | | | What one tip from this article can you take action on |
| relationship mistakes that they had made. Then I | | | | before your head hits the pillow tonight? |
| asked regular folks in successful relationships, as well | | | | Enjoy Life! |
| as experts, how to fix the mistakes made or avoid | | | | Remember - You DO Deserve To Live A Great Life! |
| making them in the first place. | | | | Life Coach for Successful People Who Want More |
| Here's what I've learned: All you have to do in order | | | | Success(TM) |
| to have the love you deserve is know the | | | | ©2008 Darryl L. Mobley. All rights reserved. |
| relationship mistakes you should avoid and how to fix | | | | |