Dating Relationship: is it Togetherness or Possession?

It's been awhile since you have been in the datingdoes not add up from your perspective you find
game but you are back with a vengeance. Andyourself going over their testimony again until you
happily you have met someone that you are gettingare fully satisfied.
serious about. The calls last to all hours of the2. The Panic
morning eventhough the two of you have to get upYou don't hear from them for a day or even two.
early.How do you handle it? Longing to be with them is
You spend weekends together sharing lifeone thing but letting their absence take you on an
experiences along with your hopes and dreams foremotion roller coaster ride is another. Does your mind
the future. Neither of you has had it easy but you'restart racing towards some jealous thoughts?  Or
hanging in there and the fact that the two of youdoes it get to the point where you have to get in
have found each other makes every moment youtouch with them not to see how they are doing but
spend together that much better.alleviate your fears or confirm your suspicions?
But the thought has passed through your mind a3. The Mood
time or two that may be you and your datingWhen you and your dating partner do get together,
partner spend too much time together. You get anthey cannot help but notice your mood has changed.
uncomfortable feeling that a certain amount ofThey ask you if anything is wrong. You tell them
neediness is creeping into the relationship. Yet it doesknow (which is a lie) or you let your emotions get
not stop there.ahead of your logic and tell them how you felt when
You also think that neediness is turning intothey were away.  Your partner may appreciate that
possession. It is not just that you hate to be awayyou missed them but your tone and body language
from your dating partner but you find yourself havingcould also tell them they are going to have trouble
certain thoughts that border on unhealthy jealousy.with you in the near future.
Take into consideration a few things:It's good to be in love but keep in mind the best
1. The Court Roomway to destroy a relationship is to smother it. If your
When you and your dating partner get togetherdating partner has strong feelings for you and vice
after an absence, how do you go about asking themversa enjoy it while giving the relationship space and
questions? Is it just a general what have you beentime to blossom. That space and time will also help
up to or does it turn into a serious cross examination.you from driving yourself crazy.
You want to know all the details and if something