| Do you meet men, but none of them are right for | | | | I bring this up for any woman who: |
| you? Do the men you date have similar issues or | | | | 1) Claims she doesn't meet men who she finds |
| patterns? | | | | interesting |
| This week I had a client who said she didn't meet | | | | 2) Claims that the men she meets aren't her "type" |
| many men who interested her. As a Dating Coach, | | | | 3) Claims that her type of man doesn't have similar |
| when women say this, I always ask if they have a | | | | relationship issues |
| "type." Dana denied it. "Nope, I don't have a type of | | | | If you have a "type" chances are strong that when |
| man. Well, maybe I just can't really describe him." | | | | you look back - your "type" may create the |
| So I asked more questions (what any good coach | | | | strongest attraction for you, but not the strongest |
| does) Turns out Dana certainly does have a type. | | | | relationships. |
| Having grown up in the 60's, she likes liberal-hearted | | | | When a client calls me to say, "I'm dating a new guy |
| men. | | | | and he is SO different than most of the men I've |
| Next, I asked what she had discovered was the | | | | dated." I give a little cheer and feel highly optimistic. |
| problem with her type of guy. Once again, Dana | | | | More often than not, this is the relationship that |
| denied any problems. "Nope - they have no flaws in | | | | sticks! |
| common." she remarked. Digging deeper, Dana and I | | | | So think about it next time you go out to meet |
| discovered that the liberal men she finds most | | | | people. Push past your type to see who might be a |
| attractive have commitment issues! | | | | far better, longer lasting and happier match for you. |