| If you are a shy guy by nature then you probably | | | | Well, most shy men find it hard to find the right |
| don't think that any girl would be interested in you. | | | | words to assert. Dont worry about being some silver |
| What you almost certainly do not know, though is | | | | tongued cavalier, most ladies actually find it off |
| that there are positively tons of ladies out there who | | | | putting and downright corny when a man delivers |
| fully love shy men. Lots of women are sick bored | | | | some staged pick-up line to them. I've always |
| with today's macho obsessed, arrogant, disdainful and | | | | discovered that the handiest way to get a |
| regularly downright foul males, and they are searching | | | | conversation going is to ask the woman a question |
| for something else. Listen to me when I say that the | | | | about herself. Believe me, most women ( and plenty |
| majority of single women are basically looking out for | | | | of guys ) love to talk about themselves, and that |
| a shy guy just like you. They know that you'll | | | | brings us nicely to my third tip - being a good listener. |
| respect them, wont be overbearing and gererally | | | | Now this tip is absolutely golden, be a good listener. |
| you'll be better to get along with. So dont be fearful, | | | | Ladies love a guy who is a good listener as it shows |
| let me give you some recommendation on dating for | | | | they are attentive and caring. It also helps you to get |
| shy guys, and you can turn your fears around.the | | | | to know them better and leads on to more subjects |
| most important fear for most shy men is, naturally | | | | of conversation. See how easy this all is? |
| enough, rejection. This may make you reluctant to | | | | Another excellent tip in my dating for shy guys |
| approach girls and ask them out. What i will tell you | | | | repertoire is to plan ahead and choose a acceptable |
| now are some golden tips that may help you make | | | | meeting place. Of course, some times you simply |
| the first move, and then help you keep going into a | | | | meet in a moment,well seize that opportunity and go |
| full-on relationship. | | | | with the flow, but if you've got the opportunity to |
| My mummy always used to say..'If you don't ask..you | | | | arrange a meeting, then take care. Make sure its a |
| don't get', and that is the nub of the problem with | | | | place where you both feel cushty. I might always |
| dating for shy guys. Its tough to approach a girl, but | | | | avoid dives as its not possible to have a good |
| if you don't approach her then you can pretty much | | | | conversation, and sports event which can be highly |
| forget any kind of relationship. You would be amazed | | | | charged. Choose a delicate activity like boating, its |
| at how many girls, even in today's equal society, like, | | | | great fun if the weathers nice, or even mini-golf! The |
| or maybe expect, the bloke to make the first move. | | | | most important thing is to get rid of as much |
| Even if the girl in query is ready to make the first | | | | pressure from the situation so that you and your |
| move, the difficulty you are facing is that your not | | | | new found love can feel at ease. |
| particularly giving off the signals to her to make her | | | | My final tip in my dating for shy guys list is a |
| think that you are interested. Its a classic impasse. | | | | straightforward one. Have fun. Yes, if you are both |
| So, my number one tip in dating for shy guys is to | | | | enjoying yourself the atmosphere will lighten and she'll |
| be assured, not arrogant, as most ladies find this | | | | be more interested in you. Now that sure is a recipe |
| highly attractive. | | | | for achievement in my book. |
| Ok, so you have made the first move, what next? | | | | |