| Remember the bad old days where you had to hang | | | | been true about 10 years ago...but times have |
| out at a bar to find a woman, or worse still, wait until | | | | changed. Now, the internet is a perfect way to |
| a friend of yours felt sorry enough for you to set | | | | decide where to meet women and to get to know |
| you up with one of their women friends hoping that | | | | them. Why? Well every woman on the dating site is |
| the two of you would hit it off. Now at our age we | | | | single and looking for a male!! This is the ultimate |
| look out of place( and downright deviate!) if we go | | | | niche marketing!! The internet site provide you with a |
| to a disco, and let's face it, hanging out at bars week | | | | veritable bucketload of women that you can select |
| after week is soul destroying. And the biggest | | | | for age, interests, education, smoker/non smoker, |
| problem with these old systems is that we have no | | | | children/no children etc etc. |
| information on the woman when we approach her. | | | | For the best results, do the meeting online, but make |
| Firstly it is scary to have to get up the courage to | | | | sure that you're moving the interaction into the "real |
| approach a complete stranger and start a | | | | world" as soon as possible. Don't get caught up in the |
| conversation with her. Secondly, we have no idea | | | | email ping pong that feels safe but won't move you |
| whether she is even single and thirdly, we have no | | | | forward.. You need to meet face to face as soon as |
| idea whether she has the basic attributes we are | | | | practical to see whether you both click or not. Treat |
| looking for. | | | | these meetings as an opportunity to hone your |
| Let me give you an example. I have a few "no go " | | | | communication skills and sort out what you do or do |
| zones that are mandatories for me. I don't like | | | | not want in a future partner. |
| smokers: I like my woman to be well educated and | | | | You can also treat every meeting as an opportunity |
| intelligent: I want someone that can string two words | | | | to widen your social world. I have heaps of friends |
| together effectively and express herself well. For | | | | now (all girls) that I "hang" with. They are all great |
| many men who are looking to breathe some life into | | | | and are very willing to be used as a sounding board |
| their dating life, knowing where to meet women is | | | | when I have dating issues as well, so get out there |
| one of the first, and most annoying, challenges that | | | | and meet all these amazing women and treat every |
| they face. After all, even if you know how approach | | | | date as an opportunity to learn more about yourself. |
| women and how to attract women, you still have to | | | | It's like a wonderful new shopping expedition! |
| know where you can find them and where they'll be | | | | Researchers have found that it is a much more |
| open to being approached and asked out on a date. | | | | successful way to find long-term romance and |
| So if you're ready to get your dating life | | | | friendship for thousands of people. In fact, they have |
| together,one of the best dating secrets for men | | | | shown that 94% of people who meet this way go |
| over 50 is........ | | | | on to a second date and the relationships lasted for |
| Online Dating Sites | | | | an average of 7 months with 18 percent lasting for |
| So are you now thinking that only losers or | | | | over one year. Now you have to admit that's pretty |
| desperates use the internet? Well, that might have | | | | good odds!! |