| I know. The mere thought of the bar scenes, or | | | | dreams and plans. 'Baggage' is a slang term denoting |
| even the thought of speaking with someone else, | | | | experience in a negative light. Our past experiences |
| with the intent of finding a mate can be absolutely | | | | are what shape us and the baggage, we cannot be |
| horrendous and a little intimidating. | | | | rid of. What we can do is grow and learn from these |
| People are crossing age barriers, dating either older or | | | | past relationships to live and love more profoundly |
| younger and it can be daunting for those of us that | | | | and ultimately better. |
| have been out of the 'meat market' for some time. | | | | Remember, any preconceived notions you may have |
| While this expression may seem a tiny bit crude, | | | | about dating or others will be construed through your |
| upon further reflection you will realize that it is, in | | | | speech and your body language. |
| fact, a market, as I will explain. | | | | If and WHEN you re-enter the market: flaunt your |
| Dating is not your traditional market. Each person | | | | wisdom, flaunt your assets and make sure to relax. |
| enters it at different times and at different | | | | Use your past experience as a basis for your |
| frequency, with different intents. Especially for the | | | | conversations and your interaction with the other |
| newly single in their 30s, 40s, 50s or older, it is | | | | person. Each one of us is different but has something |
| important to stand your ground on key issues and | | | | to offer. |
| ensure a match before pursuing any long term | | | | |