| Why is it so difficult for some women to meet a | | | | sure way of saying, "don't bother me." |
| man? Is it because they do not get outside their | | | | Hiking up a local trail on the weekends will help you |
| home often enough and make an effort? Maybe | | | | meet men. There are many regular hikers whom you |
| they don't have enough interests that bring them into | | | | may get to know once you become a regular |
| new circles. Diversity is the answer to an active | | | | participant. You don't have to be in great shape, just |
| dating scenario. Getting active is the best thing a | | | | getting out and doing something is enough to catch |
| woman can do. | | | | male attention. |
| Take golf lessons, but be aware that many other | | | | Frequent lounges with live music...Ensure it is a mingle |
| single woman are also thinking they will meet men on | | | | type environment with an open room concept. Avoid |
| the links. Most men are competitive golfers and will | | | | booths or closed seating venues. Be assertive but |
| not be overly excited to share their game with an | | | | not aggressive. Lack of confidence is a date "killer", |
| inexperienced newbie. There is something to be said | | | | but the more a woman puts herself "out there" the |
| for socializing in the clubhouse after though. At the | | | | more she will become comfortable in many different |
| very least, it is a wonderful way to spend an | | | | surroundings. Going to places that men frequent the |
| afternoon, even if it means just hanging out at the | | | | most, sporting good stores, home depot, gyms and |
| driving range. Don't be shy or be afraid to ask for | | | | athletic events will improve a woman's chances of |
| tips. Men love to help! (Never talk during someone's | | | | meeting a man in a sober environment. Attending the |
| swing & choose your timing appropriately) | | | | odd baseball or hockey game is also a good idea. |
| Pick up a tennis racket & play against the wall by | | | | (Women are still the minority at these venues, so |
| yourself, this will bring partners to you even if you | | | | they will stand out.) Women need to be themselves |
| are not fantastic. Many people just want to rally a | | | | and leave the phony facade at home. Men like a |
| little on a public court. Many serious tennis players will | | | | woman who is down to earth and real. Having to peel |
| be members at a tennis club anyway. (Dressing in | | | | off the onion layers will not keep a man interested. |
| baggy sweatpants should be avoided and looking | | | | Being adventurous and willing to try different things is |
| good is part of the lure. Men are visual creatures | | | | all men really want to see, despite women thinking |
| after all) | | | | they have to be fantastic at everything they |
| Joining a gym is a must and the best networking | | | | attempt. Going for a bike ride or taking in a football |
| place anywhere. Where else besides the beach can | | | | game, is simple and appreciated by most men. It's |
| you see your potential date half undressed? | | | | not that difficult to stay active in the dating market, |
| Observing a masculine body in action is worth the | | | | if a little effort is made. You may actually get to |
| grueling 40 minutes on a boring stair master. Do not | | | | have that second date and find someone compatible |
| use your iPod if you want to meet someone. It is a | | | | to be your partner down the road. |