| It has long been said by Dating Coaches that men | | | | as those in the medium range (2.5 out of 5). The |
| suffer from a lack of confidence. A hold in their self | | | | most messaged women are those that are rated 4 |
| image where it comes to women. More specifically, | | | | out of 5. |
| where it comes to the most attractive women, they | | | | The implications are even more interesting. Dating |
| are too scared to approach them. Or even to | | | | Coaches will tell you that men are a lot more 'free' |
| entertain the idea that they deserve to be with that | | | | online. And act more confidently than in the real |
| type of woman. | | | | world. They tend to send a message to a more |
| It was difficult to prove until just recently. But has | | | | attractive girl online, where as for the same girl in a |
| fixed that. is an online dating site with a difference. It | | | | bar or club or coffee shop they wouldn't be able to |
| was developed by two Harvard graduates who | | | | muster up the courage to approach. |
| decided to use statistical analysis tools to help people | | | | We are waiting for some research to come and |
| find their perfect match. | | | | prove that point. But Dating Skills Review is pretty |
| That's not the interesting part though. The interesting | | | | sure that is the case. |
| part is the blog where they publish statistical analysis | | | | So, for you guys out there what does this mean? |
| of how men and women interact with each other on | | | | It means you are missing out on a lot of |
| the site. This is where they published statistically | | | | opportunities if you are acting like the average guy. |
| relevant research that demonstrates that men send | | | | Just because you aren't messaging online or |
| messages to the women they find the most | | | | approaching offline the most attractive women. |
| attractive a lot less than those they find moderately | | | | Strangely enough this research demonstrates that |
| attractive. | | | | you will be competing with fewer men if you |
| Men rate women on the site in terms of | | | | approach the 5 out of 5 in attractiveness women. If |
| attractiveness whenever they wish to converse with | | | | you act like most men and go for the 4 out of 5s |
| them. The statistics show however, that men tend | | | | you'll be competing with many more men. |
| to message women more as they find them to be | | | | Which would be easier after all? Which would get you |
| more attractive. However, for the most attractive | | | | a more satisfying dating life in the end? It's a no |
| women (rated 5 out of 5). There was a huge | | | | brainer. Approach the most attractive women. Let go. |
| discrepancy. | | | | Message the most attractive women. Both statistics |
| All of a sudden the messaging drops off. The men | | | | and your own interests are telling you it is the right |
| only message the most attractive women as much | | | | thing to do. |