| To become a good conversationalist, you need to | | | | Go on a road trip. Go camping or hiking. It's all about |
| become interesting. And to become interesting, you | | | | the experiences that you can have, the pictures you |
| need to experience many different things so that | | | | can show and the stories that you can tell. That's |
| you will have different, unique experiences to talk | | | | what will make you a better conversationalist. |
| about. | | | | Suddenly, talking to a strange girl will be no big deal |
| Once you have unique experiences to talk about, you | | | | once you've been lost in the wilderness, or have |
| will find it much easier to start a conversation. | | | | taken the wrong train in Europe. |
| One way you can do this is to go traveling. | | | | Take the road less traveled, and enjoy the ride. Live. |
| I know it can be super expensive and it might not fit | | | | Don't be totally consumed with tomorrow and your |
| into your schedule, but you'll grow as a person and | | | | future that you forget to live today. It's not worth it |
| expand your conversational repertoire because of it. | | | | in the long run. |
| If you can't afford to go by yourself, or with a | | | | Girls love adventure, fun and spontaneity. And if you |
| friend, consider going on a missions trip through a | | | | go (or have gone on a few adventures), then they |
| church (the church will sometimes help out financially - | | | | think that you could be fun, exciting, and |
| and it can be a great place to meet some girls). | | | | spontaneous. |
| Take a minute to brainstorm ideas right now. | | | | Once you've done a few things, then you'll have |
| Any type of traveling will work - just try and turn it | | | | some experiences to draw on in conversation, |
| into an adventure. I'm sure you won't find it too hard | | | | making it easier for you (as your stories will come |
| to come up with something that could be an | | | | across naturally), and much more interesting for |
| adventure. | | | | them. |