| Some of the best places to meet women, in my | | | | towards a normal conversation. That's my little |
| opinion, aren't what you might expect. You may think | | | | technique for talking to girls in cafe's. |
| that it would be bars or clubs, but I have found that | | | | Another one of the best places to meet women is |
| one of the very best places is in fact cafe's and | | | | at the public library. If you chill out and begin looking |
| other everyday places like that. | | | | for books, your sure to spot a hot girl (probably a |
| I think this is because women aren't expecting to get | | | | student) looking through the books. This gives you a |
| hit on and picked up when there sitting down to a | | | | great opportunity because you now have a great |
| nice hot cup of coffee. And for this reason, they let | | | | little opener. You can ask her about what she's |
| their guard. This gives you the opportunity to talk to | | | | looking for and if you discover that it's her passion |
| girls in a relaxed environment and get dates. | | | | you'll be able to get in to an easy chat about it. |
| So how do we go about approaching women in a | | | | You'd then transition like we did in the first example. |
| cafe. Well I think that you should be as spontaneous | | | | By spotting something about her and then beginning |
| as you can be and just ask a question that she's | | | | to talk about it. Or picking up a keyword within the |
| likely to have an opinion on. | | | | conversation and talking about that. |
| Whatever you do don't make it look as if your hitting | | | | So if she mentioned a holiday or the name of her |
| on her! | | | | collage, you would then ask her about that. This |
| Just be casual and get a conversation started. So | | | | would then get you into a wider variety of topics |
| you may say something like, 'A friend of mine has a | | | | and provide whats known as wide rapport. When |
| girlfriend that he's been going with for a long time. | | | | you manage to do this with someone it feels as if |
| Just the other day I saw her with another guy at a | | | | you've known them for ages because they've been |
| bar and they were laughing and having a good time. | | | | picturing (inside their minds) all these different |
| I'm not sure who he was or what was going on, but | | | | situations - whilst talking to You! |
| I can't get the thought that she might be cheating of | | | | With just those to ideas you should be able to |
| him out of my head. Do you think I should talk to | | | | brainstorm more ideas of the best places to meet |
| him, or confront her? Or perhaps I should just forget | | | | women in you area. That's the key, because in every |
| about the whole thing? | | | | location there will be better places and worse ones. |
| That's sure to get you talking. Then you'll want to | | | | But think about where students congregate and take |
| pick up on something about her and transition | | | | it from there. |