| Is valentine's day the worse nightmare for singles? | | | | you stay home waiting. Think what you are |
| The whole world is celebrating love and you seem to | | | | passionate about. Join an interest group and start |
| be the only one left out? It doesn't have to be that | | | | making friends. Try meetup, meet market |
| way. Here is the action plan for fabulous single girls to | | | | adventures, or groups on facebook. |
| enjoy this day. | | | | Action 4. Have fun. |
| Action 1. Release. | | | | There are plenty of singles parties on this day. Sign |
| Get the negative feelings out of the way. It's OK to | | | | up and have fun! You'll realize that there is plenty of |
| feel sad. Don't try to sugar-coat it by pretending to | | | | fish in the sea. You may find the special one on this |
| be happy. But remember, being single is way better | | | | special day. (Wishful thinking, I know, but be careful |
| than being trapped in a troubled relationship. If you | | | | what you wish for, cause it might come true.) |
| have to, give yourself 5 minutes to focus on your | | | | Action 5. Get Physical. |
| misery, (you'll realize how stupid that is before the | | | | If you are not the party type, exercise is a good |
| time is up.) Check to see if anything is changed. Then | | | | way to boost your energy level and get you in a |
| move to action 2. | | | | good mood. Go to the gym, attend a kickboxing |
| Action 2. Express. | | | | class, try belly dancing, or go swimming in your poker |
| Valentine's Day is not just about romantic | | | | dot bikinis. |
| relationships, it's about the BIG love. Show your | | | | Action 6. Indulge. |
| appreciation of your friend, your family, your pets, | | | | Before you can love others and be loved, you must |
| yourself, or planet earth! Send Valentine's Day card | | | | love yourself. Pamper yourself with a SPA session or |
| to your loved ones. And remember to pick the most | | | | soak in your own tub with music (yes, you are |
| fancy card for yourself and write down reasons why | | | | encouraged to sing along) and aromatherapy candles. |
| you're so special and lovable. Make sure it's big | | | | Enjoy a good massage and paint your toe nails in |
| enough, cause you need all the space. | | | | fuchsia. |
| Action 3. Connect. | | | | You can pick a few actions from the list or do them |
| If you are determined to get out of singlehood, put | | | | all. Who knows, this may be your last single's |
| yourself out there. Prince charming is not going to | | | | valentine's day. Celebrate it, your way. |
| come and knock on your door no matter how long | | | | |