| Before I let you in on a few places to meet guys, I | | | | your custom fun calling cards or getting his digits. |
| want to give you some ideas on some tools you can | | | | 3. Ask for exercise tips -- If you don`t have a |
| use to ease agony of approaching men.o Use | | | | membership to a gym, join one now. Work out next |
| Personalized cards-- Be creative. Have some custom | | | | to the guy that catches your eye. Ask him the kind |
| business cards made at your local printer. Put your | | | | of machine or exercise you can perform in order to |
| name, and cell phone number on it. Below your name, | | | | achieve a certain goal. Have him suggest an exercise |
| write a brief description of the kind of person you | | | | to get rid of love handles and flatten your stomach. |
| are -- make it funny and sweet -- think outside the | | | | If you come back to the gym often and throw a |
| box. You can say something like, Do not call my | | | | few smiles his way, you could do lunch or have a |
| number if you are living with your mom, or hate to | | | | drink or dinner soon. |
| have a good time. I believe that most people that | | | | 4. Worship together -- Churches have organizations |
| receive this kind of card will be compelled to call you | | | | and activities for singles that you can participate in. |
| just to find out more about what makes a sassy | | | | Ask your pastor, priest, rabbi, or Imam about what |
| young lady like you tick. How many people do you | | | | your religious organization has. Churches and |
| know who have this kind of card? Not many. Be | | | | synagogues are not just for worship anymore; they |
| different.o Print out your best recipes on a card and | | | | bring like-minded people together. |
| take them with you when you go grocery shopping | | | | 5. Play in the park -- Take a Frisbee to the park, and |
| -- You can print them on your computer and cut | | | | you will surely find a cute playmate. All you have to |
| them into postcard sizes, put them in your purse/ | | | | do is see a cutie coming your way and throw your |
| pocket book and give them out when you see a | | | | Frisbee in his direction. He will want to catch it and |
| handsome guy in the meat isle looking confused | | | | toss it back to you. In no time, you could be |
| about what to cook for dinner. Make a smart remark | | | | picnicking in the same park. |
| about what meal he wants to prepare, and give him | | | | 6. Volunteer for a good cause -- Catch a cutie while |
| your recipe card with your number on it with a note | | | | participating in a worthwhile cause. When you |
| that says, Feel free to call me if you need me to | | | | volunteer for community development activities like |
| give you some pointers over the phone. It`s natural, | | | | the one that is run by Habitat for Humanity, you will |
| there is nothing aggressive about it, and before the | | | | discover that you can meet very down to earth, nice |
| guy realizes that you have picked him up, you will be | | | | guys with big hearts. Call your city hall and let them |
| sitting across from each other in a cozy restaurant | | | | help you locate community development activities |
| looking into each other`s eyes over a romantic dinner. | | | | you can participate in. |
| Here are some new places to meet men and how to | | | | 7. Hang out in a nice men`s clothing store -- It`s so |
| make your move: | | | | easy to meet a cutie there. Plus, you will probably |
| 1. You local book store`s café -- The latest | | | | meet men that dress the way you like. Go to one of |
| hang out for cool singles who want to meet | | | | your favorite men`s store. Mind you, if the store is |
| intelligent men. If he is sipping coffee and reading one | | | | upscale and is located in the suburbs, you will increase |
| of New York Time`s best sellers, chances are you | | | | the chances of meeting a single guy who can afford |
| can strike up an intelligent conversation about current | | | | to take you out to exciting places. Walk into one |
| affairs, and he will have something to say that is | | | | these stores, scan the store for a cutie, and ask him |
| worth listening to. You can always start by asking | | | | to recommend a dress shirt or suit for your brother |
| him what he is reading or get a recommendation on | | | | or dad. Men love to give advice, and while they are |
| a book. | | | | giving you some suggestions, it would not hurt if you |
| 2. Music breaks all boundaries -- Just as bookstore | | | | compliment him on what he is buying or wearing. |
| cafes are all the rage these days for singles, music | | | | 8. Catch them at the next convention -- Find a |
| store are such an easy place to meet single men | | | | convention coming to town on a subject that |
| who will end up sharing the same taste you have in | | | | interests you -- business, religion, art, etc. The great |
| music. Next time you go to buy a CD, keep your | | | | thing about these kinds of events is that you will |
| eyes open when browsing your favorite section of | | | | meet people who already have the same interests as |
| the music store. If a cutie comes along, ask him if he | | | | you. Men are easy to approach at these events. You |
| has listened to (insert your favorite musician`s name) | | | | can always start by asking a cutie what he thinks |
| new CD. And from there you can strike up a | | | | about the event. Find out if there is another one |
| conversation about what his favorite musician is, etc. | | | | coming up somewhere. And you never know, you |
| Before you know it, you could be giving him one of | | | | may be going to the next one together. |