| Online dating - or at least meeting women online - is | | | | by showing that you do not simply take whatever |
| a whole different ball game than traditional ways of | | | | comes your way - you can BE picky. |
| meeting women, at least for the average single male. | | | | The next step will be emailing the woman. Most |
| The good news is that there are certain things a man | | | | people try to tell their entire life story in the first |
| can do to boost his online success and bring it from | | | | email to someone they meet online. If she has |
| the internet to the real world quickly and smoothly. | | | | emailed you, bust her balls on something she wrote in |
| Online dating starts with your profile, and there are | | | | the email and get her phone number or a time to |
| some definite things a man can do to catch a | | | | meet her at the local coffee shop. Don't ask her - tell |
| woman's eye - or of course, to make her move right | | | | her! Say, "Girl, give me your number" or "Hey, meet |
| on past you. Keep in mind that women think | | | | me at Stone Mountain at 2:00 on Saturday", etc. If |
| differently than men do about most aspects of life. | | | | you are emailing HER in response to her profile - |
| You're sitting at your computer, pounding out your | | | | make it short and a little challenging - not |
| profile and trying to imagine exactly what a) women | | | | complimentary or relating your attraction to her in |
| want to hear and b) is at least fairly close to the | | | | any way. Write something like, "I noticed you said |
| truth about yourself! So most guys end up saying | | | | you candle-light dinners, is that because you are |
| things like, "Surely women will surely want to know | | | | afraid he will see you chewing with your mouth |
| what a great guy I am, how sweet and considerate I | | | | open? C'mon, give me something I can WORK with |
| am and how I love my dog...." WRONG. Do you know | | | | here!" Then see what happens. |
| what women ACTUALLY think about that? "Great | | | | Then, step three, you've got to take things OFF the |
| guys" do not need to make you believe that they | | | | internet as quickly as you can. Once you have the |
| are great. Their "greatness" shows through in what | | | | interest of a woman, get her phone number, get a |
| they write and how they make a women feel - and | | | | date set up or meet her for coffee as quickly as you |
| if you need to say you are wonderful, then you are | | | | can. Not to be weird or aggressive or anything, but |
| probably NOT. | | | | simply because the internet methods of |
| So how do you exude "greatness" without stating it? | | | | communications - email, IM, texting, whatever, are |
| The key is using a little humor to create attraction, | | | | really...dry mediums of communication. Lots of |
| which will LEAD to her thinking you are a "Great | | | | miscommunication can happen - not to mention she |
| Guy". Try implying instead that you are really choosy, | | | | may be lying to you about what she looks like or |
| and that you're trying online dating as a last resort | | | | who she is. So move it from the internet to the real |
| because all the beautiful women you meet are boring | | | | world as fast as you can. One great way to do this |
| and shallow. In doing this, you will be doing several | | | | and to still allow the woman to feel safe it to |
| things simultaneously - you are creating a challenge | | | | propose meeting for coffee or lunch. This is very |
| that most women with self-esteem cannot help but | | | | "non-date-like" and will probably get her agreement a |
| accept, you have told her without stating it directly | | | | lot faster than proposing to take her to a bar on |
| that you CAN get women, you're not despondent | | | | Saturday night where you can get her drunk and |
| and you have demonstrated your alpha male status | | | | then try to take her home. |